be told i am sexy

Good for the self esteem, when you hear it from the right person.

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i think everyone will be told they are sexy atleast once in their life. My advice? Sit back and enjoy some vanity for a little.

or work in a bar!

I have the best bf in the world. He tells me I’m sexy and all sorts of other great things. Not once do I have to seek compliments so it makes me feel as though he means it. I’m totally head over heals in love!!!

I get told I’m sexy by random strangers all the time when I’m working. It feels good and everything…but none of that even compares to how it’d feel if the man I loved would say that to me. I don’t know if he just doesn’t think I am, or if he just won’t say it…but I NEED to hear it…and no matter what I say about how I need to hear compliments…I get none…NONE…does he just not ever think nice things about me??

I know I’m bragging, but I was told so many times that at some points it became overly annoying. It’s nice if a guy friend says it, or even a girl, but when idiots on the streets or from the cars are doing, gosh…...
Well, atitude is key, of course.

... for yourself. Because then no one can ever take it away from you!

And even better than “sexy” (which is essentialy posturing, looks; superficial stuff which come and goes) is “sexual.” “Sexual” is forever.

“Sexy” is acting. “Sexy” is what you do for its effect on other people. “Sexy” is often manipulative. “Sexual” is being. “Sexual” is an integral awareness or at least sub-awareness, of the pulse of life and love and living, and that you are part of it.

Once a boyfriend said to me, in a tone of wonder, “You are SO sexual.” I know immediately that this was more true. And it was also far more of a compliment, and infinitely more thick with layers and meaning, then “Sexy.”

Once you know you are sexual, trust me, you WILL have it confirmed.

he tells me sometimes and I smile, like the last time, I was wearing this dress that shows off my hourglass curves, thanks to the hula hoop, anyway he grabs my hips and says so sweetly in my ear, you are very sexy. :)