practicing setting boundaries
7 months ago
setting boundaries and enforcing them helps.
How to be in control of my life
It made me
proud of myself. 
"It's called "grabbing the bull by the horns""
How I did it: The ultimate act of taking control of my life was moving out of my mother's home. Consequently, I moved to a province where I literally knew a single person, my partner.
Building your life from its foundations is exhilarating, terrifying, romantic, impractical, and myriad other things.
It's a crash course in life, that's for sure.
Lessons & tips: Don't move to the Prairies just cause you're looking to get away. There's nothing here.
Resources: If you're moving to a new community, usually the official city/council website will have information on relocating. Use it. You'll learn a lot from it.
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going to New York
8 months ago
i have a ticket to New York and i didn’t ask anyone for their blessings, opinions or advice.
my parents are driving me CRAZY!!!
20 months ago
I’m in the stage of my life where I’m trying to live my own life, and my parents don’t want to let me go. I have no idea how to get over this obsticle. I do most everything they tell me too. If my parents ask me to do something, its done. And I’m not a bad person either. they have never woken up to a midnight call from the police, when I go out, I tell them where I’m going, and what time I’m going to be back, and if for some reason if I am late, I always call and tell them I’m going to be late. the most they had to really yell at me for is my grades, and they can’t do that anymore cuz for the first time in my life, I’m doing alright. don’t get me wrong, I’m definately not the perfect daughtor; I have my downsides, but they have theres too. there not perfect either. I just want to be set free. and I’m sitting on the sidelines of life in a boxed cage.
Sick Twisted Freak is happy, almost
Instead of....
2 years ago
my life controlling me. But, today, i’m grabbing life by the balls, and from now on…I AM IN CONTROL!
closer
2 years ago
As I’m getting closer to making life changing decisions, I am realizing how much the simple act of moving out has over my control (or lack thereof) over my own life…
I’m almost 25, I need to move the eff out, and own my life.
Untitled
3 years ago
well now tha all the alway in me in crisis people are out of my life this is going to be a bit easier to do
Untitled
3 years ago
think I have a theme going on here. being and taking care of my self. no one but me can know what i need or want at any give time. I need to look at my slef with in my life and ask what do I want … not would my son like or would my boyfriend like or would my mother approve.
pam is cleaning out my spare bedroom
I control my life!!!!
4 years ago
I am tired of just floating along to what other people want me to do or expect me to be…I need to take charge and do what I feel is best…Scarey thought!
