humekant is wanting someone who is interested in the same way she is
I think believeing I need to have better self esteem is a symptom of bad self esteem in the first place! like a viscious circle… Just as people are unhappy with their looks or whatever people become unhappy with their ‘self-esteem’ (whatever entity of us we can identify as this) giving them in turn lower esteem in the first place.
Maybe you have ‘high’ self-esteem when you can stop worrying about what level your self-esteem is at?
We only get to go through life once, there isn’t any practice runs or re-does… If only it was easy to embrace yourself as you are and be happy with that, the ups and the downs. Maybe it is easy, we just look too far into it.
I’m sure we are all great people…. we are humans, and sometimes we think we aren’t good enough humans, but part of being human entails mistakes and shortcomings, that is what makes us us. We cant change that and shouldn’t feel that we weren’t as good as we could be, because if we try, that is all we can do. Although this is not an excuse to be lazy or ignorant…just make the most of who you are; there is nothing wrong with self improvement, but sometimes I think we are too harsh on ourselves, believing we must ‘improve’ constantly…but if we do that we will never reach a level where we can be content.
