I’ve … done this, but without the ‘public places’ part …
I was never sure if it was going to be an ethical or moral thing to do, but I considered as many aspects of the situation as I could before I sent my first letter, and always came down on the side of ‘its better to regret something you have done than something you havnt’
You see, I send my letters TO people.
At their home addresses.
I never look at their names, just pick some random address from an on-line directory or local (paper) listing of residential addresses.
I send them THE letter.
I never try to remember where it is that I sent it – that’s not the point.
I know they recieve the letter. I know they read it.
I guess what they do, how they physically handle it and what they might be thinking.
I understand the different thoughts and emotions that it evokes in them …
... as a stranger, to a stranger.
I take as much care as I can with the letter to emphasise that this is not a threat, not a cause for concern.
It is a link in a chain that cannot be traced – it came from somewhere but leads … wherever the recipient wishes.
It does not exhort politics, religion, money, contain any personal information, threats, blackmail, criticism, appeals, requests, or anything that might cause offence (other than the apprehension of recieving an unsolicited letter from a stranger who cannot be traced – and I do my best to lay that one to rest).
I have everything that I could wish for or want by the time they read the letter.
I know they recieved it. I know they read it.
What happens after that is personal to them – I will never know what they chose to do.
Did they destroy it?
Did they keep it?
Did they write their own letter to a stranger?
Did they forward the letter I sent them?
Strangers often do some altruistic things for other strangers.
They give them money, lifts in their cars, a friendly smile, the time of day, organ transplants, one-night stands, save their lives, hold open doors, act as surrogate mothers, buy them a drink.
Why not send a stranger a letter?
But without the possibility of a reply?
Who wins? Who loses?
This is not chain-mail. What happens after is of no relevence to me. I have the knowledge that the letter I sent, handwritten, on handmade paper, with a stamp, with love, with feeling, with a wax seal, to a stranger, who I will never recieve a reply from … got there. Intimate enough.
The rest is up to the recipient, and whatever they decide, it’s the right decison for them – that’s OK by me.
It started out out as ‘pay it forward’ meets ‘the letter from the prisoner in the film ”’V’ for Vendetta” ’ combined with old-fashioned letter writing.
I can’t get back the letters I’ve already written – that’s partly the point. But if I’m going off-piste with this, I’d appreciate a little (or a lot!) of fine tuning.