Learn to accept constructive criticism from people i love

I was getting so upset and defensive of toby, he was trying to tell me how to make creamed rice, when i was making it. He had some good points, but they are things i already knew and was already doing. I hate people telling me how to do things, when i already know what they are telling me, and am in the process of doing it. It really irks me, because then it seems like i am doing it because they told me to. I know i should get over myself, but that’s just the way i feel.

You know, only biting their head off for about 5 mins, before i realise what i am saying and appologise, and realise they have a point, and thank them for pointing out where i could do better.