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Well... 4 months ago

I realize this goal isn’t very specific. But maybe I could make the ultimate goal to talk to 3 people other than my mom when I’m sad and say why. Tell them about my depression, but I don’t know if I want to go so far as to say “I’m depressed/ on meds.”



Untitled 5 months ago

i hide every thing from every body!! some people know some things others know other things no one knows every thing but me. its soo screwed up.. and the thing is i didnt even notice i did it untill about a month ago when a friend said she didnt know any thing about me… then i started to notice a dont tell people pretty much any thing about my self how i really feel what i really like what i do ect its like i have my real self and then my peoeple self the person i am to the out side world… and i know exaclty why i do it its coz im trifyed of being judge and not just a little bit scared i mean terrifyed and the thing is i have got in to such a massive habbit of hiding hu i really and i have no i dea how to start opening up to peoeple…im soo wired im a compleat closed book and the peoeple closest to me im pretty sure think im crazy! and i am sure thats why i cant keep frien for too long coz i get scared of getting to close to them and opening up.. can any one give me any advice?? xx



KnittingKnerd just finished knitting a cat

Untitled 11 months ago

I’ve been helping out a lot in my school’s library—before school and at lunch. I check in and out books, so I have to be friendly. I’ve hardly even noticed it, but I’ve been much more talkative since I started working there. The more talkative I am, the more things I talk about, so the more open I am. This is working out great!
Now, if only I can be more open with my ‘crush’...



Untitled 16 months ago

It sounds easy, but it isn’t. I have no idea why I find it hard to share thngs with people, maybe I think they won’t want to hear it. My fiance is always telling me he feels like he doen’t know the whole me, and thats after 4 years! I really have to do this one, I so want to share everything between us. It’s not even that I have major secrets or embarrassing secrets, because I don’t!



Ame_09 is painting

Lack of confidence 19 months ago

I think my lack of friends has to do with this wall, this preliminary defense system I’ve put up, because I fear being hurt. This lack of letting people in has so much to do with my unhappiness I think. I’ve haven’t got one true friend in the world and the one I thought I had left me to fulfill their own dreams, and being such a good friend I let them. Social interaction is something we all need. We are social creatures, we thrive and grow on human interactions.



trust? 1 year ago

It takes me so long to trust people and tell them what’s wrong or anything. I wanna be more open and be able to tell them what i’m feeling.



43things helps with this one... 3 years ago

I am putting more of myself out than I probably ever have (with the exception of with my wife). It feels good! Not only am I putting myself out there, but I am seeing others do the same. I tend to keep to myself, including my thoughts…but here I tend to spit more of them out. I think the anonymity of the site helps, although I am trying to do more in my “real” life as well. Oh well, life…it’s a process!




 

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