Create a Blog

well, i used to keep a blog when i was younger. i had a livejournal for a few years, most of highschool, but then stopped when i got to college and abandoned it for four years. it would be nice to keep a blog again, because life is starting to get so interesting! i’m writing stuff down in a journal but it doesn’t do justice. although it’s lovely, i would like comments and people finding my life exciting just as i am.

i need a suggestion of a good place to start blogging…

The way you act may affect everyone around you. But what if you dont do it on purpose? who knew, i would feel so sorry about behaving like that…H says we need changes. Yeah, we all do need to change ourselves for good. But no one knows what future holds. And how can we forgive if we cant forget? This used to bother me, but no longer. I am done with everything we have said and done, I cant wait. Need to move forward. where exactly? dont know yet. but i will figure it out sooner or later.
life is amazing, but now i cant see that light at the end of the tunnel. we ve got lost smw in btw. and i am very scared that hardly anyone can help us. have to handle it. ouselves.

About the people that have inspired me in the blogosphere. :)
I’m on a roll this week!

Blogging Allstars: 10 People that Inspire Me

Fifth post: Reclaim Your Dreams, and Ebook Review

And today I figure out how to configure Windows Mail and my email that goes direct for my site (no aol, hotmail, yahoo… !!) I never thought I’d be able to figure that out. And now it’s set up. Small miracles… :)

About a ebook on Blogging that really helped me get up an running. Great step by step guide to setting up a blog… for the ultimate beginner, if anyone is interested in how and doesn’t think they can.

Blogging Blueprint Review

Check it out. And subscribe with the little box in the right hand corner, while you’re there. :)

What are your two wishes?

Check it out. Comment. Subscribe. :)

Note to self:

• identifiable logo
• Customer header with popping colors and tag line
• Mini logo up in box next to url thingy next to site name- (what’s that called?)
• Stumble it/Digg/ Whatever else logos on right side bar and along bottom of each post
• Number of comments more prominent?
• Enlarge/ Change font to individual post title (in different color?)
• Custom twitter page with logo
• threaded comments

• Hook up Outlook with email address through dreamithelife.com
  *Fix broken stumbleupon link
• make sure subscribe to comments fixed
• Change Google Analytics email to match website address… how?? Is it possible? (changed email from which subscriptions are delivered, which was really the problem.Done via feedburner)
• Add META title/tags. Upload Plugin for all in one SEO. need to first figure out how to..
• Back up all data on site
• Upload Wordpress update

on twitter. From a recommendation from someone that randomly followed me…. he’s a young designer, looking to expand his portfolio… and very nice and responsive. Looking at having him develop a logo for me, and a custom header for my site, and maybe tweak the rest of my site a bit more to my liking. I want it to be simple, yet unique and branded. I’m excited… I love the internet.

After discussing with him my excitement in internet business, and entrepreneurship. I emailed him asking for his creative ideas for blog topics. He’s this incredibly brilliant writer and creative person, and has been wanting to work with me and write with me for as long as I can remember. I’ve been excited about the prospects of maybe working with him on some project, or at least be able to bounce ideas off each other about writing and words and such. After I made my first affiliate marketing site to experiment with making money, I told him a made my blog. And I wanted his thoughts on ideas for it. Since he has been virtually self employed (and at some points very, very successful writer) for 30+ years, I figured he’s be fun to talk about writing. But his pervasive negativity and narrow mindedness continues to surprise, and disappoint me. Instead of talking about ideas, he left me a message that he just doesn’t “get” this blog thing. He “gets” direct money making sites, but he’s very narrow minded about blogging in general. I used to have these same thoughts, but I’ve been self educating about the whole blog world and internet business for the past few weeks. He told me that he doesn’t understand the point of it all, that he thought someone has to have something to say in order to have a platform such a blog, a degree or PhD, a background as a political analyst. He went on and on about all the reasons I can’t do it, and why it won’t work. And it’s so sad. He got to me because he pokes at my insecurities (as usual). I worry that I don’t have anything important enough to say, I worry that I won’t be able to come up with interesting, intriguing content consistently for long periods of time. But those are just my insecurities. I know that simply being human is my qualification to write, and if I didn’t have anything to say, I wouldn’t have had the drive to get as far as I have. He even said, “I want to be positive about this”, but his words had the opposite tone- negative, questioning, unsupportive. He’s incapable of being supportive of something out of his scope of knowledge. He’s not into blogging, and doesn’t follow or know anyone that does.

It seems like whenever I trust him with my truest feelings, his negativity and doubt and fear just seems to bring me down once again. And then I shake my head and remember that it’s best that I keep him at a distance. It just sucks to not have 100% support, even though I know that he doesn’t know what he does, and really means well. That’s just what makes it confusing.

Has been posted .

This is kinda fun.

If I could only I could learn how to do more web design and html, faster, I’d be good.

Good thing I’m not writing a productivity blog!