stay away from negative people

stay away from people who pull you back

yeah people started to wonder why I would leave their parties or gatherings early. If there’s just one person being cheeky to me I would tell em off, and then leave. It has a huge effect on certain people. Making this goal happen, I also had to make a sacrifice my best friend is very negative. And now I barley see her. But well hopefully she will come around. To everybody who wants to meet this goal, just find out what you find negative. And what will you accept.

WHO IS IN YOUR FRONT ROW?
Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in your life.
There are some people in your life who need to be loved from a distance.

It is amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of, or minimize your time with those draining,
negative, incompatible, ‘not-going- anywhere’ relationships or friendships.

Observe the relationships around you.
Pay close attention…
Which ones lift, and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage, and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill, and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones always have drama, or don’t really understand, know or appreciate you and the gifts that lie within you?

Remember that the people you have around you will have an impact on
your life, your values and your income. So, be careful when choosing the
people you hang out with, as well as the information with which you
will feed your mind. We should not share our dreams with negative people,
nor feed our minds with negative thoughts.

The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and
truth around you… the easier it will become for you to decide who gets
to sit in the FRONT ROW, and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.

Ask your God for wisdom and discernment, and choose wisely the people
who will sit in the front row of your life?

3. Switch Off Your Own Negative Thoughts

Negative thoughts can be like a virus that just keeps on
spreading. If people close by you are negative it is only
normal for you to lose a little of your own enthusiasm and
drive.

You may even start to have a few nagging negative thoughts
of you own.

Be careful!

One such negative thought leads to another, and another…

You need to switch off these negative thoughts ASAP or else
your motivation will fizzle away to nothing.

2. When You Get Stuck Seek news from People Who Can Help

Very often when you get stuck you will turn to whoever is
nearby for encouragement and advice. This can be a big
mistake if that person has no vision and a limited sense of
possibility.

Only ask for news service from people who are qualified to help
you. When you act on good counsel you know you are doing the
right things and staying motivated will be easy.

Whereas when someone with no relevant knowledge or no sense
of possibility advises you it makes sense to be unmotivated.

Why take jury-rigged expedient on bad advice? Why even try if that person
cannot see things working out?

Avoid this negative world view by mindfully deciding who to
get alerting from.

1. Do Not Discuss Your Dreams with Negative People

Only share your hopes, dreams and goals with people who
will be supportive of your plans. Making your dreams come
true is like tending to a garden.

You have to give the plants the nutrients, water and
sunlight they need to grow i.e. for you this means – the
resources, mental focus and energy to create something new.

And you have to pay constant acuteness to weeding and
eradicating bugs that will over run your garden if you are
not vigilant. i.e. protect your dreams from negative people
by not exposing your plans to their toxic words and
thoughts.

Getting motivated is sometimes easy enough to do, at least
for short periods of time, but staying motivated can be a
lot harder to do.

And when you add into the mix the presence of negative
people it is really not surprising that your motivation can
fizzle out despite your best intentions.

What can you do?