NOT get married

Not too rough. Able to avoid the ring one day at a time. I think there out there, in the woods, waiting for nightfall, to attack.

But I’m not taking any chances. Been married, and not willing to go there. When lightning struck, I was powerless, so have to keep aware of my goals and not “FALL MADLY IN LOVE”, and lose all sense of reality.

My favorite response to people who ask me, “When are you getting married?”...

“When are you going to die?”

Never fails to shut them up.

in the future, i think i don’t want to get married..marriage isn’t balance, i believe.. if i want to be with someone and someone wants to be with me, we don’t need a paper to stick together…
however, “you never know” – they say. want i defend now, can be different from what i defend in the future…

...But not because I want to get married. I’m just removing this goal from my list because it’s a bit of a silly goal, given that I could only call it complete after my death.

Therefore, I shall reserve the room in my list for more constructive things that I can do whilst still alive, because really, what do accomplishments mean when you’re dead?

but i have done this so far!

i am not so sure about this but for right now, i am happy being single. I love to be in a relationship, to have someone to share something or everything with but to get married to someone is another story..

my wee voice said so.. it’s really not for me..

i hate commitment, im very independent, marriage is tacky. need i say more? dont do it and ull be happy like me!

“To me marriage is whats in your heart, the piece of paper is just a legality I dont need it…” i found this saying on a old acquaintance’s Yahoo ID, and as much as i agree with that statement, I do find myself wondering what it would be like to be married. To be with someone, to have and to hold unconditionally forever. Maybe i just need to start with a relationship, those i just cant’ seem to win with. I want to have someone in my life, however i can’t find a man worthy of my trust ... so i have to keep looking and it’s hard, because i seem to have a fear of commitment and of trust and of loyalty and of respect because of all the men (boys) in my past who have screwed me over and left me worse off than when we started to date, sounds impossible, but it happens …. I have a son to put first, and then myself , Once i get our lives on track, maybe, just maybe i will find the person who i’m suppose to live the rest of my life with .. But I’m not holding my breathe !