Make my parents proud of me

I know that naturally everyone has had some criticism from their parents but I have only received negative responses from them and my whole family all my life. I’m 23 years old and they all have something bad to say no matter what I do. I found out that I was pregnant on May 28,2009 and all I’ve heard is basically I’m not going to be a good mother. Makes me want to cry because I wasn’t even supposed to be able to have kids and I’m excited. They down my fiance for not working but he has cerebral palsy. One wrong move he’s in a wheelchair for life. He’s working on getting his disability but “that’s not good enough” they say. These things are all they talk about. I’m happy with my life why can’t they let me be? He may not be able to work but at home he cleans a lot, he takes care of me on my sick days without me asking, and he has never done me wrong. He’s a doll baby and they also make him feel worthless. Just don’t know what to do about it. Just needed to vent. These hormones are really raging now that I’m pregnant and I get so emotional if I don’t let it go. Thanks for reading.

i wanna make my parents proud of me … how can i do this???

I haven’t been doin well lately n I just want to hear them say that they are proud and happy for me.

I’ve been doing my best to keep up my good work and I just want my parents to smile.

Basically i want to work really hard at school, and i want them to know im fulfilling my full potential. I also want to do something to surprise them, something they wouldnt expect me to do (in a good way – not get my nipple pierced or something!) something like perform in a school concert or get involved in something, i dont know? i’ll have a think! And just help them more i spose, im so lazy atm.

The notion of gaining the metaphorical “gold star on the forehead” makes us all smile a bit inside. However I worked hard for years to accomplish this goal, only to find it wasn’t all that big of a deal. In my journey to make them proud, I found that they began to resent my accomplishments because they far surpassed their own life achievements. So in the end, all the work I did for them, really was for me. Use them as a guide, but use your heart as the true brass ring.

i love my family and want to make them happy, always…...........................

well I’m not getting along with my mother…. i feel like she always has something about me to complain about. What am I doing wrong? It appears to be that she just wanted to spend time with me (saying my priorities are messed up), but then she believes I’m really in need of a relationship with Christ, but then it also seems like she thinks that I can’t keep family secrets (I guess I can’t -its hard not to tell my friends when I feel I need some kind of release from my stress. But there is also her thinking that I am keeping secrets from her; but I can’t tell her everything, especially if there is part of the past that I want to leave behind.

I feel like I’m the problem of the family- the only one she feels is not good enough. Its really hurtful and I’m sure she doesn’t mean it like that (sometimes im sure of it) but it really hurts my feelings that she focuses on my problems more than anything else. All she seems to do is give advice (constantly) and tell me what I’m doing wrong. I just want to know what I’m doing right for once.

my brothers are both drop outs, everytime i get the motivation to do good in school i always mess it up, i think what’s the poit? I’ve developed a reputation for myself & not a good one. i want to change that. i want to make my parents proud..

my father always seems disappointed in me even though i have a/b grades and im in all honors classes,
i dont do any drugs or things like that,
i have no idea what i do wrong,
but for some reason he is never satisfied with me..

but i mainly aim to make my mother proud of me,
for she died two years ago,
and its been hell ever since.