I used to talk to random people a lot. Yes, they were so interesting. I was dating someone for about 2.5 years who felt uncomfortable when I did it, and I stopped. I guess I let her insecurities change the way I was living. She thought it was dangerous. I think I started to believe her for awhile. I guess I just got out of the habit and it is taking me some time to feel comfortable again. Human beings “most” want to be talked to, want to be acknowledged by others. I guess that is why I always did it. It’s like, “Hey buddy, I see you,” or “You exist in my world.”
I don’t think you are self centered, just maybe self aware! Keep trying, and I will too! 4 years ago

I used to be able to approach anyone and just start talking. I’ve had some pretty interesting conversations with random strangers. I’ve become too cynical lately. I assume that everyone around me is crazy, high, or just plain irritating. That could be a side effect of working in a bar for the last few years. Also, I’m not as curious about others as I once was. Am I becoming self-centered? 6 years ago