Just for the fun of it: List 43 things that I want a boyfriend to be

26. I want my boyfriend to actually love me!

25. Sexually proficient and adventurous.

21. Does not take me for granted
22. Grateful
23. Generous
24. Decent table manners

its fun & all…but i think that i should be making a “list of 43 things that i want to be as a girlfriend” type list instead…b/c i cant change people. only myself.

so im going to finish my list; i did 20 already. but the last 23 are going to be things that i want to be as a girlfriend. and im going to mark this as not worth it. b/c i dont think it is….i should try to make myself a better girlfriend, not the other way around…right?

21. happy
22. loving
23. sympathetic
24. understanding
25. humorous
26. beautiful
27. helpful
28. good listener
29. someone he cant wait to see
30. ticklish. ;)
31. calls to say hi
32. creative
33. smart
34. thankful
35. adventurous
36. athletic
37. goofy
38. smiling
39. forgiving
40. not too demanding
41. strong
42. dances like an idiot w/ him
43. gets along with his parents.

11. laid back
12. jealous type…but not too much
13. likes to watch movies
14. pays attention to me when there are other girls around
15. athletic
16. good music taste
17. comes to my basketball games
18. likes my dorky laugh
19. and my dorky smile
20. tickles me….no matter how much i say i hate it

43 Things I’d Like To See In A Boyfriend

21 – isn’t afraid to pamper me, but he WON’T spoil me

22 – doesn’t let me take advantage of him, but not in a bossy way.

23 – independent

24 – understands that i’m my own independence

25 – listens to me

26 – doesn’t interrupt as much as i do

27 – can cook, but doesn’t need to be some sort of gourmet chef

28 – inspires me to be something more than i am

29 – he’s inspired by me

30 – has a good amount of trust

31 – (this is just a want) MUSICIAN!!

32 – has opinions

33 – isn’t a pervert

34 – surprises me from time to time

35 – interesting stories to tell so i won’t be bored all of the time

36 – wants to change the world… but not alone

37 – doesn’t coat himself with arm length tatoos

38 – i’m not fussy look-wise, but i’d appreciate it if he was fairly attractive

39 – gets a 43 T account, so i can show all of you how amazing he is!

40 – doesn’t kiss and tell

41 – doesn’t pressure me to do things i don’t want to

42 – is one of those guys that makes me think “Oh my gosh! I can’t believe he’s my boyfriend!”

43 – makes my friends think “Oh my gosh! I can’t believe she’s going out with him!” (not that my friends are mean)

43 Things I’d Like To See In A Boyfriend

1 – Honesty Honesty Honesty

2 – (the one i’ve discussed with dawn) gives me piggy back rides :P

3 – deep enough to feel something

4 – original and NOT fake

5 – makes me feel a certain unique feeling that only happens with him

6 – respects me

7 – respects woman kind

8 – intelligent enough to know the difference between math and english (meaning i want him to be smart, but not necessarily a 900 IQ)

9 – a certain feature that just gets me… like piercing eyes or adorable smile (somethin’ like that)

10 – romantic, but in the genuine way, not the mushy gushy way

11 – doesn’t laugh at me for my dorky ways

12 – understanding

13 – doesn’t call girls “chicks” and guys “dudes” [it just get on my nerves!]

14 – funny!

15 – can take care of me if i can’t take care of myself

16 – polite enough to not shove noodles up his nose (meaning polite, but not exactly Sunday Best 24/7)

17 – hygenic

18 – uses the power of his voice to speak up his opinions and thoughts

19 – creative in SOME way

20 – not a perfectionist

1. honest
2. respectful
3. sense of humor
4. calls me beautiful instead of hot
5. calls me back when i hang up on him
6. listens
7. best friend
8. wants me to have the best (everything)
9. likes to protect me when we watch scary movies
10. doesnt’ cheat

16. Likes to cook.
17. Can behave himself in front of my parents.
18. Likes travelling and new experiences.
19. Will suggest spontaneous outings to the pub.
20. Appreciates art and good design.

11. Thinks my tattoo is sexy.
12. Doesn’t mind if I smoke the occasional cigarette at a party.
13. Is someone who has a solid sense of who he is and is true to himself.
14. Loves my cat and other animals.
15. Can fix/build almost anything and does the job well.