trust my husband

My husband and i have been married for a year and a couple of months. He has never cheated on me that i know of and he has been so good to me, but in the past he lied about talking to this girl he knew along time ago and she started harrassing me over email and started saying that they had kissed and dated before and he told me different. He lied about calling her for a month or so than came out and said that he did. Ever since then i cant trust him to be alone or go out. I want to trust him with all of my heart not just some of it, i want us to have full trust in our marriage, but how can i get over all the jealousy and trusting part??

how can i trust my husband

I’m noticing that it is easier to let go of my worry if I remember that I am in control of me. I don’t need to control anyone else and in allowing my husband his space he even started giving me more of my own space. I did not realize that he is also a little jealous and sometimes doesn’t trust me….Weird huh! He thinks of me as this non-trusting person but he doesn’t see it in himself..lol

Just watched true life.. about couples who don’t trust each other… I was a little jolted by the fact it seemed the second the guy thought the woman was being untrusting they became untrust worthy. I applaude Nikki I think the smartest decision was going to a councelor. They seemed to quit yapping at each other and they started listening.. I am so sorry that Nikki lost him to an illness that was sad… but the show put more perspective on the fact I need to trust my husband.

I went out of town and I did not stress about what my husband was doing while I was out of town….I enjoyed my trip and I am confident he did not do anything I need to worry about. I came back more relaxed and it was nice…...

I finally had a small break through… I allowed myself the freedom to not worry about what my husband was doing…I enjoyed allowing him to be himself and do what he wanted to do with out including me….And he was so much nicer to me afterword that it was worth it!

I have several trust issues that have nothing to do with him. But I want to feel secure that my husband is trustworthy. He has given me no reason not to trust him.

After nearly filing for divorce last year – through a rather magical series of events we reconciled. Then we began the long long and arduous journey called therapy. $90 per session once per week since last July. It’s very hard, but worthwhile.

Turns out that most of our issues have nothing to do with the two of us. Most of our issues have been with us since our early lives. It sounds pretty cliche, and at times it is hard to swallow, but it is indeed true.

We still have issues, including the issues with trust, but we are working on it. Sincerely.

I have no reason not to. I dont know why I put myself and him through all the pain. No matter what he’s doing I think he’s lying to me it’s ridiculous. It causes a lot of problems in our relationship. Any advice???

I don’t trust him because he is not trustworthy. I give up on this goal.