be respected

recently i have allowed myself to be sucked into some ridiculously stupid drama. obviously other people were at fault but i also have to blame myself. i mean there are really stupid people who go on power trips and mainly they’re just lunatics or perverts lashing out. and if i had been smarter i wouldn’t of even talked to them to begin with and definately wouldn’t of responded to that shit. so i am through with trivial vendettas and arguments and all of that. its just a waste of time and definately not a way to get respect.

EGO PEOPLE ROB PEOPLE’S RESPECTED LIVES. GOD CONDMEN EGO PEOPLE! EGO PEOPLE ARE SUCKERS AND FAILURES!

I get so much shit at school. Everyone hates me so much and does so much bad stuff to me. All of term 3 I got called names the whole time and I hated it. They also exclude me from their groups whenever I try to hang out with them and they always laugh at me whenever I try to do something normal, like go to the beach or talk to girls.
If anyone has any advice on how to be respected post it down.

i dont respect myself.. i realize thats why people dont respect me either. it feels like im not worthy, i know its self-depreciating but i dont like feeling good abt myself cuz then ill feel like ill gain an ego which i dont want so i find treating myself not worthy to be the solution.. i dont know what else to do.

Just certain people…and they even disrespect eachother and themselves!..I stay away from them.

I talk to the people that disrespect me,the less ammo they’ll have to do so.Since we can’t control others actions,we have to modify our own. God is disrespected 24/7 by everyone…how am I to keep people from disrespectng me?I CAN protect myself from hearing/seeing it..

It is true that by giving respect most often you receive it back. On a superficial level people respect people by their appearence. On a deeper level you get respect by being informed, or capable or when you are reliable, sincere and honest. Typically people who take themselves seriously receive more respect. I believe people who take themselves seriously are more likely to be more deliberate in their actions.
myself I try to be serious but I can also see the humour in things and myself.

I’ve realized there are people who respect me, but they just keep it to themselves. I understand that, I’m not one to go up to someone and go, ” Hey…. I respect you.” and dramatically walk away. Some people I can’t make them respect me, and hopefully they will understand that they can’t force me to respect them either.

I cooked dinner at my sister’s house- my sister who lives with her husband Kellen, their two kids Caspian and Kiernan, Kellen’s brother Jonah, and Kellen and Jonah’s parents, Rob and Holly. Rob and Holly aren’t home from work yet, but everyone else completely enjoyed the meal I made- and demonstrated by all their gratefulness (and the lack of leftovers). It’s not traditional, but damn, its being respected for my cooking!

Side note: I don’t cook. Ever. I can burn water, its bad. But with a good recipe, I feel like a cooking guru, a chef at the Ivy!

I respect myself and others, but I feel that many friends and family disrespect me. I do not want to cut off relationships with others, but I feel forced to because I’m tired of being disrespected. I wonder if there is an easier way.