get over my shyness.

Whether I’ve been successful in this will be put to the test tomorrow! I’m starting a new job! For the last four years I’ve worked with the same people and for the first 2 years I hardly spoke, they thought me weird :( But something happened (it might have something to do with getting drunk at the xmas party!)and I started speaking and the people weren’t that scary anymore, I enjoyed going to work and they in the end they couldn’t shut me up!
The new job came around quickly, so there hasn’t been time to think about it but I’m going to miss my team, I feel comfortable with them, they are like extended family. I just hope I can feel as comfortable with this new team as I do now so that I can be myself. I know that I wouldn’t have tried for this job 2 years ago because of a lack of confidence and being just too scared, I just hope its me thats changed and its not the people around me that make the difference.

I hate being so shy. In college, I thought I got over my shyness, but it came back after I graduated and married. I think it’s from lack of seeing friends and making new ones. If there is one thing I would like to get over, it is my shyness. I really want to have close friends and be confident in my conversations.

All u have to do is learn to control the conversation. dont wait for someone to to approach You, approach THEM this way you can decide when the conversation ends. Also if u get stuck talk about the weather, shopping, or ect.

ahh! im too shy! i need to get over it! help! school is getting horible and im looosing friends because of it! its so depressing and i need to get over it! i dont care how much work it takes just HELP!

I’m just extremely shy. I want to be that Outgoing and bubbly girl that everyone loves to be around!

ohkay

when i meet new people im usually really shy, i become not shy when
a)i get to know the person and im comfortable with them
b)i feel stupid being loud
c)im drunk

This is never gonna happen! Goddamnit!

hi i need help with being more sociable..my girlfriend gets mad at me when i dont talk when she calls me…i guess shes feeling left out..and shes the last person i want to be shy around…

I finally got over being shy. I have been shy for about 16 or 17 years… and I just got over it… I found out that it is only in your head. If you keep telling yourself “I’m going to talk to this girl/guy” then you will more than likely end up doing it! What I did was I kept telling myself that I was going to call this girl that I have a major crush on… so I just sat around listening to some music… and not like love songs or anything… I mean something like… Jeremy Camp’s song Let It Fade or Take My Life. Both of them are kind of high energy songs and it had gotten be pretty pumped up. So once I was pumped up and all that I ended up calling her. Only got to talk to her mom but still it was start! So just to tell you… if I can do it then I know all of you can. If you have any questions just let me know. You can either reply to this comment or you can e-mail me at gamefrk@gmail.com