I want to be able to go down there and say ‘hi’, without feeling i get in the way or called at the wrong time.

I want to be able to visit her weekly and be able to expand on seeing her more and more.

I want to be able to phone at least once a week, and be able to spend an hour on the phone to her.

I want to be able to take her out – whether it be shopping trips to the supermarket, helping out with some chores, or simply just a day out with me and the children alongside with her.

I want to be able to find a way knowing i can be welcome to stay over if i need to, and her have the children at least once a month for me.

I want to be able to visit her on special occasions such as Christmas, Birthdays and other celebrations. 22 months ago