Become less self-conscious

I think the best way I can do this is be happy with my size. Only, I know the only way I can be happy with my size is to be a UK size 10/12 XD

8 is unrealistic for my height, and most my friends are 10/12s and they’re all beautiful and perfect (and the object of many men’s desires).

Also, I have to get rid of the psychology of ‘I am invisible to all but my friends’, because I feel I am, and then when the spotlight is on me, I’m not invisible and I dunno how to cope.

I reckon extending my vocabulary will give me confidence in how I express how I feel… once I get round to honestly saying how I feel about things.

People say that to be less self conscious, you should focus more on what other people are doing, to distract your mind away from yourself….

Nothing allows one to become more confident with themselves, than when the are nude, in front of people for the purpose of drawing art. You soon realize that nothing is as “revealing” to your self, than to “expose” your total self in this venue. This is not for everyone, but it helped in my case. I enjoy it. And it has become natural to do.

more confidant, and comfortable in new situations and with new people. Breathe…breathe…breathe & Relax :-)