I’ve done a lot of this in the past couple years, but I don’t know that I will ever really complete this anytime soon. To me, becoming confident in yourself is about realizing and being happy with who you are. People are always changing and I just hope that when I become the person that I want to be, I like her. ;)
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I totally lack confidence, if teachers ask me questions in class I blush.
If someone asks me about my boyfriend then I blush!! I can speak up for myself it’s just when my face goes red I get so embarressed and then I shut up so I don’t draw any more attention to myself!! There doesn’t seem to be anyway of winning, can anyone offer any advice to stop myself blushing all the time?
So I bought this book yesterday: Confidence: The Art of Getting What You Want. I mostly bought it on a whim because I needed a book to read on the train and couldn’t decide from any of the fiction books so went for this. I’m glad I did, it seems that the writer and psychologist Dr Rob Yeung really knows what he’s talking about. I like that he also stresses that you have to put the work in yourself and you won’t necessarily get instant results. He really gets you involved and gives you little exercises and homeworks to do and practice applying to your life. I am going to do it properly, do the exercises, learn the techniques and fully apply it to myself. The reviews at Amazon back up what I have got from it so far, if anyone wants to read them here.
adelea loves ice cream
i’m pretty satisfied with my confidence right now
but this goal is so hard to complete
because is changes like the tides… up and down with your mood
but i’ll say i’m done
i’m more confident than timid
i can do things that require guts
and i’m no longer afraid of what other people think
Jessiedoll is happy
I’m getting better. I am also working on my posture. For some reason its all about the posture LOL. If I stand tall, I start believing I can face anything. It sounds stupid, but I’m serious…
adelea loves ice cream
so with this new haircut i have mentioned
feeling so much more confident
because i believe that i look soo much better
in turn i feel much better
confidence boost
but then again this goal says “become more confident”
and you can never stop becoming more and more confident
i will never be able to complete this goal
nor anyone else in the world
there is always room to keep growing in confidence
twirlergirl is TakInG iT eAsY
I think that confidence lies within the beholder. Everone starts out with an abdunce of confidence when they are born. But over time, people talk about one another and we all slowly loose all the confidence that we have over time. And then, when we loose our confidence, we start to belittle people and this is a continuous cycle that needs to be broken. Everyone is beautiful on the inside and out and the only persons opinions that TRULY MATTER, are our own…
Jean_jellybean wants to lose some weight
I really want to become more confident
when it comes to meeting new people
i am already and friendly person and very social
but it still doesn’t mean i get nervous inside
about how people will see me
how do i become confident??
adelea loves ice cream
i’ve definitely improved my confidence by maybe…. 99%?
i’m almost there! today i went to the tea salon with three friends we talked… and i felt like this weight was taken off my shoulders. along with being more confident, some more things have come in the package. i have been much more outgoing. i like talking to random people now… i’m not afraid to speak my mind. i am so much happier!!! i LOVE MY LIFE!! (even though i’ll probably hate it in a week) thats just how i am.
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“how do u become more confident when everybody already nows what your like and expect you to be like that?”
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