unfinished business
1 week ago
i want to finish what i started 20 years ago
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How to become more confident
It made me
Proud!!
 "Challenging"
How I did it: After spending most of my life lacking confidence in myself I finally in a way gave up caring what others thought about me. Lessons & tips: Believe in yourself. Resources: Therapy.
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02MUrban is having a normal day, practising on my piano
It made me
Finally happy
How I did it: Still working on it, but mainly just realised that everyone around is just the same as me, no better and no worse, we're all the same and nobody's ever really going to look down on you Read how I did it…
adelea loves ice cream
It made me
alive
How I did it: There is no "way" or "path" to finishing this goal. I guess the past couple of years must have been rough patches, I'm at a new school, and I'm making new friends, overall every thing is running mostly okay for now. Its just such an improvement from last year that I can't say anything negative. Read how I did it…
It made me
smile
How I did it: i started going to places on my own and then i got the hang off it i really wanted to fulfill this goal and i did it entirely on my own also i started asking different questions i wouldn't normally ask Read how I did it…
It made me
How I did it: just recall the time in your life when you felt confident or great about yourselves. now bring it back to your imagination and relive the experience in your mind and get those feelings back.Now bring the thumb and the middle finger of the right hand together and press. The next time you want to be confident, just press the thumb and the middle finger together and feel the difference. Read how I did it…
Jessiedoll is happy
It made me
happy
How I did it: I can change my mind in an instant. And perception is all that matters, and you know I'm right about it. Your day could be crap and your mind could be filled with everything positive making you blind to the stupid stuff. Life is to freakin short and unpredictable to even give negativity the time of day. I'm beautiful, I'm smart, and I'm wonderful. My talent is that I can be myself and be proud of it. No matter what know it all wants to co… Read how I did it…
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1 week ago
With my friends, I’m louder than you can ever imagine…but I am really not a confident person and it affects other social situations and sometimes situations at school.
rosievendetta is texting. msning and generally chatting to EVERYONE! haha xox
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2 weeks ago
I’m one of these people who seems confident, but even tiny things will have me running through various scenario’s in my brain to try and stop myself looking stupid.
I’m guessing this is going to take a long time to complete, but some amazing changes have happened in my life recently so you never know I guess lol xD
Evilphatpandah is trying to meet my goals!
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1 month ago
I’m starting to feel more confident because I went to a dermatologist a few weeks ago and now my skin is almost completely clear! :) I feel more confident in my appearance…but I want to feel more confident in myself in general.
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2 months ago
I have no confidence in front of audiences. I have tried to overcome this by joining a theatre group and the School orchestra. As soon as I went in front of an audience my nerves were so bad that I eventually left both
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2 months ago
I look for opportunities to strangers, to greet friends by name, compliment people, etc. and it gets easier the more I do it.
ShaylaCalifornia is talking online and arguing with an old friend
confidence?
2 months ago
once upon a time as a little kid playing dodge ball or the biggest sand castle i was confident.
Now in the present time of being 20 years old, Im contemplating confidence.
oh boy
Paul McKenna's Instant Confidence CD
3 months ago
This book and hypnotic CD is really really good, but unfortunately you do need to listen to it regularly and keep doing the suggested exercises (many of which require visualisation) in order to remain confident. I got really into this a couple of years ago, but have since let it slide. I really wish I’d carried on with it, so I’m going to start listening again. The CD takes about 30 minutes.
not so much
4 months ago
I think this has gone downward slightly. I don’t have a job anymore, and I guess since I’m interacting with people less, I feel less like being around them. I don’t even like going shopping most of the time. Actually I think the main reason is my friend Caroline. She makes me feel like I’m not myself, and I think I really need to get away from her because if I’m not myself, I just don’t feel good.
When I haven’t seen her in a while though, I feel really good about myself, like better than even before I met her. I suppose that is good news, because that means that things will get better when I’m not with her.
I just hung out with her yesterday and today, and we have plans for tomorrow, and I just don’t want to. I never initiate anything, but I don’t say no either. Tomorrow I will make sure to not make any more plans. Refusing from the start is easier than cancelling. I can’t wait to go to France and just get away from everything.
keep it comin;)
6 months ago
I’ve done a lot of this in the past couple years, but I don’t know that I will ever really complete this anytime soon. To me, becoming confident in yourself is about realizing and being happy with who you are. People are always changing and I just hope that when I become the person that I want to be, I like her. ;)
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“how do u become more confident when everybody already nows what your like and expect you to be like that?”
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