have a successful relationship

I have recently had a very bad breakup that was waiting to happen for a long time, it has knocked my confidence but I am trying to make improvements to my life and do more exciting and fun things…

A nice guy wouldn’t go a-miss!

Hey, this just isn’t about boyfriends and friends anymore, people!

I need to have a better relationship with myself. Once I consider myself a fun person to date. Once I feel like I can comfortably expound one whatever I need to…everyone else will feel the same way. Of course, this is coming from the person who has always been very happy single (well, I guess I got over the fear of being alone) and not so happy with a guy (I’m always worried that they will cheat or whatever).

I need to work on my interpersonal skills. I’m really good when I am not emotionally invested in that person, but I think I need to be that way with people I care about. I need to let people know when they ticked me off the first time instead of bottling it up so much. I also need to be less protective of myself and just let myself fall…

But first, I need to redate myself to better figure out the best match for me.

I’ve tried everything from holding out to jumping in on the first date, anything you can think of to attempt to have a successful relationship, I’ve done, I’ve even attempted to not try to have one… if that makes any sense to you. I just don’t know if I’m made to be happy with anyone. I was recently head over heels for this guy who said he loved me for a little bit and then he tells me he only needs me for comfort and security, which I am all for, except he doesn’t really love me like he said. I think men/boys/ etc. are the ones who play the mind games more than the women do, I try to work with them, but it’s like they don’t want to put in any effort themselves. sigh it’s a battle I wish I could win.

I have been alone for like month and I thought I liked this guy at my school but now I don’t and I have been hanging out with this really cool guy and hes really hot I went shopping with him on thursday and hung out with him today after school.He is so smart and everything he says is so meaningful and correct.But It would be really complicated for us to go out but I really do think i like him but I don’t mind being friends. I ‘m so confused.I know I have to kiss him otherwise I will surely die!!!!