The baby steps: learning how to pronounce the words/letters, and how to say it. This is VERY important. Example, ‘Bayjeeng’ is actually ‘Peicheeng’. Z is read as ts, etc, etc. And don’t get me started on the tones! As what was said above, it may be written the same, but giving the word a different tone also gives a different meaning. Master the four tones by listening-imitating.
Take it slow. Chinese has an ENORMOUS amount of characters. But no need to think of that. Go for the basic words first (let’s say, mom, Monday, Miss), then if you think you’ve got that covered, move on to the intermediate(mystery, match, meek). While widening your vocabulary, use it in simple sentences (Where?, This is a book., Is it okay?). In other words, grammar. Understand where verbs are placed, etc, etc.
Put your learnings to use! TALK to Chinese. No, not your Chinese teacher. Living breathing chinky-eyed mainlanders. Give yourself a million points if you’re living in China, that way you’re able to refine and enrich your Chinese, also if you have a friend who’s fluent in Chinese. In other words, forget that you’re American or whatever, be Chinese: listen to Chinese songs, watch Chinese movies, be a fan of something Chinese, etc, etc, until you say ‘ouch’ in Chinese! [okay, maybe NOT that far, but you get the idea] But trust me, it is VERY different talking to REAL Chinese than with your Chinese teacher. You will learn a lot.
PRACTICE! Give yourself a pat in the back if you think your Chinese is better than yesterday’s. Remember, you need time, patience, and determination for this.
Learning any language is not easy.
And guess what, Chinese couldn’t be more of an exception.
I know just a few paragraphs won’t help much, but Good Luck. :)