make the first move...

<3 i love my bf... we've been dating for what.....3 months? i want to kiss him <3

Not as difficult as I thought it would be. My girlfriend likes aggression, so as she went to turn away I grabbed her arm, spun her around and planted one right on her. All this time I’ve been worried and over-thinking the whole thing. Now I realize it’s really not that hard if you just do it!

That was the beginning of many great things for me…

I’m finally back in the dating game after being out for about a year. There’s this girl at my work (technically, she’s my boss) who’s been flirting with me back and forth for about six months now. For the longest time, we weren’t sure if it was just a friend thing or if it might be something more. We definitely have that yin-yang complex. She’s very loud, abrasive, outgoing, she drinks and smokes, she has like 900 friends and she’s 4 years older than me. I’m more reserved, don’t always have to get into every conversation, I don’t drink or smoke, I have a much smaller social circle. But for some reason, whenever she and I are alone, we just “click.” I calm her down and she gets me going. It’s an odd pairing.

Anyway, last night we went out to Logan’s Roadhouse and had dinner together. We both liked it and the conversation flowed really well, so she invited me back to her house to watch movies. Up to that point, we hadn’t done anything more than just “being friends”, though there had been subtle hints back and forth. To make a long story short, she threw about one hundred hints at me last night but I was too scared to make the first move. She eventually got tired of waiting and just walked over and laid it right on me (YES!!!)

After that magic moment, we talked about our whole situation for about two hours. We agreed that it’s very risky to try anything together, because there’s a good chance that a failed relationship could mean the end of our friendship, too. But we’re going to take it slow and see if it feels right or not. BUT, the thing was, she said she’s not making the first move anymore and she challenged me to do it. That makes me a bit nervous, because I’ve never had to initiate anything within a relationship before. But like I said, she raises my confidence when I’m around her, so I’m hoping I’ll have the courage to make the first move from now on.

I hope so, or I’m going to be one sad puppy! I’m working on it…

yes, i want to do this

This is going to be the goal I focus on most, for now at least. All part of the big plan…

Sometimes you have to just make the first move. It took me a bunch of times to get him to notice me, but it finally worked and we dated. It didn’t work out, but it was definately worth it.

yeah, I’m pretty old-fashioned myself when it comes to relationships… so I waited for my crush to make the first move…and he did! and things ended up perfectly for us. we’re together, it’s been 2 months, and things are going great : ]

Reminds me of a song. “Your Love” by the Outfield…

http://music.aol.com/video/your-love/the-outfield/1386795

OK so maybe thats not what the song is about. lol. but theres a verse that reminds me … :)

i dont really have a desire anymore to make the first move.

im old fashioned, what can i say!

thanks to making the first move i now have an amazing boyfriend. yay.