learn how to hold good conversations

Really it does. I just started to really think about the things I talk to my friends and other people about. What really matters when you’re talking to them, what its about, how you’re body language is working, you know.
But as I kinda went along with it I just seemed to feel more and more like, don’t say everything thats on your mind. Unless you’re THAT guy, but I’m not that guy. I just like being cool with everyone being happy and getting a laugh or kick out of it.
Long as its cool, shouldn’t have a problem with it. Basically, don’t always worry about what to say…even if its as simple as how ya doing or whats new with you, if you can listen then holding a conversation shouldn’t be a problem. :]

I think sometimes…I like to try to be an open minded person. But with that comes this thing where I just like to let some things out, and I’m never even sure if it’s worth talking about.
Like talking to my friends, just like usual, and then when it comes to talking about girls, work, or just something that obviously is bothering me…it becomes somewhat of a ‘buzzkill’.

I really have started to wonder if that may be driving my friends away…I just don’t know. Friends are the people you rely on to be there and talk to, but sometimes I just never know. Heh, who do you talk to when you need to talk about whats bothering you with your friends?

I just wanna be able to talk to them so they can understand what I’m going through. Without having to annoy or bug them about it, so I don’t seem like it’s always upsetting me or I’m always complaining. I want to just be able to vent in the easiest going way I can. Then when I can be around friends and just spill it, its something they can even relate to.
Heh, or maybe I just blabber on too much…