accept change

Accept change. who knows wheather its good or bad in the long run..

“This farmer had only one horse, and one day the horse ran away. The neighbors came to condole over his terrible loss. The farmer said, “What makes you think it is so terrible?”

A month later, the horse came home—this time bringing with her two beautiful wild horses. The neighbors became excited at the farmer’s good fortune. Such lovely strong horses! The farmer said, “What makes you think this is good fortune?”

The farmer’s son was thrown from one of the wild horses and broke his leg. All the neighbors were very distressed. Such bad luck! The farmer said, “What makes you think it is bad?”

A war came, and every able-bodied man was conscripted and sent into battle. Only the farmer’s son, because he had a broken leg, remained. The neighbors congratulated the farmer. “What makes you think this is good?” said the farmer.”

recentlly i found out my fmaily would be moving 2 1/2 hours away from my well. life and seeing how this is my senior year at a school ive been at forever im staying behind and i want to accept that a fact is eveyrthings changing big or small and that scares me so i want to accept and embrace change

Hi..

I’ve always been selective to change.. if it’s good.. I accept it.. if it’s not.. I make a mess of myself.. trying to accept it..

I should let time and life take their courses.. and watch from a detached stance..

I know I have to do this.. to get less affected by everything that happens around me.

I can do this.

That’s all

So far I have had some serious issues with my friends and their abundance of unsolvable issues and althoigh I tried to be a good friend to them all, i really didnt have the patience especially when I had my own stuff to deal with…then I made a friend who gave as much as they took and who was there for me continuosly and I guess I got used to that so its killing me that I have to say bye to that friend. I’m trying to accept this change but I really dont want to have to!!!!

life is all about change!! stop fighting it and encourage it!!

get out of your comfort zone and experience life!!

‘nothing changes if nothing changes!’

It’s going to be everywhere around me and not necessarily turn out the way I want it too and all of that, and that is ok.

I don’t know if anyone else here watches The O.C, or whether I’m a part of the minority, but I’m having a tough time dealing with the latest change. I live in England and so far we are up to the penultimate episode ‘The Man of The Year’ and as the eager beaver that I am I decided to read ahead to next weeks finale and find out what happens…I was mortified to discover the death of Marissa Cooper, although her character was unrealistic and a tad dramatic, I do not feel she deserved to die. Josh Schwartz could easily have let her depart to stay with her Dad, leaving fans with the hope of her return, but NO, Schwartz has gone and lost one of the shows most integral characters…and a fan!!!

I’m so scared to death of change always have been and I think I can safely say I always will. Ever since I was little we always moved houses half way through the school year so I never got the chance to really make roots and find life-long friends, instead I ended up going to 6 different primary and secondary schools, then I finally made home, only to move half way during college. I think thats why I dread university so much, the thought of having to start again with people whos attitudes and values may not be anything like mine. How am I meant to discover myself if I can’t even discover my lecture halls in the mass maze that is uni, this is such a daunting thought. All my friends have tried to reassure me that uni will be an experience of a life time… all my friends have failed.