be in a menage a trois

Just by definition, this is a little different than just a threesome.

Term: Ménage à Trois

• a romantic relationship in which three people, such as a married couple and a lover, live together and have sexual relations.

• A living arrangement comprising three people in a sexual relationship. Alternatively, a sexual liaison between such a group of people

• Sometimes the term is also used to describe any sex act involving three people, otherwise known as a threesome.

What I mean here by wanting to be in a ménage à trois is closer to the second bullet item above, however not in a “living arangement” but rather a friendship comprising of myself and a married couple in a “dating”, which therefore includes a sexual, relationship. In other words, alternatively, were friends, hang out together, go places together but also includes nudity, showering together and straight sexual liaisons between the three of us (centering solely on her) as a part of our socializing.

I’ve done this years ago with two girls when I was in college (see “Be in a fmf ménage à trois” in my “I’ve Done…” list), so I’m no stranger to it. But now I want to become involved in the opposite combination centering on one woman (i.e. mfm), so I’m interested in a MFM ménage à trois with either:

• a married couple who are looking for a third
  or
• a single woman who is looking for two guys to be her partners

but in either case it would be an ongoing relationship and not just a one or two time thing.

I welcome any help or suggestions as to how to meet a couple that is interested in adding a third.

It’s fun if it’s with two people you trust, are comfortable with, especially if they’re both already lovers.