make better decisions

As far as I am concerned, there seem to be 2 kinds of decisions and 2 criteria which make them “better” for me:
- small-range-decisions, important enough to think about (because of investment of money and time) but no big deal for “life as a whole” and the real big, life-changinging ones
- the way a decision is made and its outcome.

Strangely, I seem to have learned to solve the “big” matter before the small matter, meanig that I:
- set myself a goal (What do I want to achieve with this decision?)
- gather information
- set a time limit as to when I come to a final decision
- take the decision and (yes!) rid myself of all thoughts about what the alternatives could have done me good.

Actually, I noticed that the trouble with my decisons was that I started doubting their outcome as soon as I had taken them, thus not feeling comfortable in the situation created by that very decision and not giving me a chance to experience its good sides. Well, this seems to go better now…

so im still not making the decissions i want to , in the sense that im mindlessly making choices , going about my day and not being concious of what im actually doing . i have to stop that :(

i have been telling my self this for ages… and im still telling my self that , no where near being done on this matter !

Think things through more and quit making decisions in the heat of the moment

Is hard but I will learn is proses after all.

This goal will be easy to reach.. if I just continue to THINK. I know right and wrong. I know when I am making a bad decision. Instead of ignoring that little voice in my head, I need to embrace it, and LISTEN to it. For FAR too long I have been making the WRONG decisions.. because the RIGHT choice was always harder to make. Do not go by what is difficult, or easy, go by what is RIGHT. Many things in my life will get much better if I make the right decisions.

i definitely need to make better decisions… about money.. about attitudes and reactions. just really, in general. if i really think about it, i almost NEVER make the BEST choice or choose the best course of action for a particular decision. I almost always choose the wrong one. Why? I think I even know that I’m making a bad decision al ot of times, yet do it anyway.

Well today I go out and have some fun. get dressed up, feel better about myself, laugh and have a good time. My friend and I are going to shootpool, go to a bar, and let loose. that’s what I need, especially right now.lol. so looking forward to this.

started off fairly bad. I won’t get into it. anyway I went to school=good decision, a friend asked me out for friday=good decision (we’ll see).

Well I’m not a very decisive person. Even the simplest things like what to order to eat takes me way more time than anyone else, and then I still try to change my mind at least one more time.

My boyfriend has helped me alot with this. He just looks at me and says what do you want and then doesn’t let me change my mind,lol.

Alot of times I try to pawn the decision off on someone else, what would you like….where do you want to go….what would you do?

I am way better than I was years ago. still needs work.