be more confident in myself

I have always had a bit of a problem with my personal confidence, and yet I can talk to complete strangers – inside I always feel that they are judging or laughing at me. In part this is why I have decided to start pole dancing classes, in an attempt to gain confidence through and through, instead of pretending I am confident.

I want to be confident. I care too much of what everyone thinks and because of it, it constraints me to do things I want to do.
Hopefully, I’ll be comfortable with my own skin one day. It would be nice to be just happy and content and not worry if you look silly.

I find myself always worrying about what others think, why they don’t like me thinking there is some ulterior motive for them if they do talk to me. I have no confidence in myself, no believing in myself , not even sure who I am really. I’ve lost myself in trying to please everyone else, constantly changing to be approved of. I want to find myself, find what I believe and be confident enough to be okay with myself.

there are a few main reasons im not confident
1 im not as skinny as i’d like to be
2 my clothes are not the best
3 i dont have much friends
but im hoping to better myself and feel better

So Im woking on this goal and I want to be able to not be embaressed when I mess up, I just want to be happy and laugh! I want to be me and not care what people think!

I think I am becoming more and more confident, especially since I started focusing on it. I’ve been doing more activities and have been spending my time on new things.

I’m happy about it.

I am trying to be confident, but there are so many things that I’m insecure about with myself, because I am still so confused about who I am and who I want to be. Its really hard to be confident when you are floating back in forth between the person you want to be. I need to take some time and figure out the person I truly want to be.

Like, do I want to be a pot smoker? Do I want to be lazy? I’m so confused about what I want.

ive never rlly been confident or satisfied with myself i was always too shy or not good enough. i felt like everyone would always be staring at me and judging me so i would just step aside and let life go by, but other times i would be on top of the world i could talk to anyone about anything, make hilarious jokes, be the most popular guy their (although popularity is a stupid way of looking at things. but most of the time im rlly shy but im trying to come out of my shell more…its just hard sometimes

Look in the mirror and be happy with what you see. Go out and feel that people are interested in what you have to say.
If you embarrass yourself in front of people i.e. slip and fall – don’t dwell on it. Forget about it and even better – laugh about it! Laughing shows that you are not embarrassed and that takes away any signs of weakness.
Be more independent and do things on your own.

Its still hard for me sometimes to be confident, but I don’t let it put me off doing things I want.

LOVE MY BODy