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There has been some progress. Still waiting for the morter to set before grouting in the morning. But at least the tile work is done….
How I did it: I have been reared by people who put a premium on couplehood. As a result I stayed in something years longer than I should have. I don't blame them. That was my choice.
Now I have a new choice. To be alone if I want or to be with someone if I meet the right man. I have come to see that I am just fine on my own. Once that was realized it took a good 6 months or more to really sink in. Hard to break years of indoctrination. It can be done though, and it's liberating. Don't get me wrong. I'm still human and I sometimes miss having someone there, but man oh man. It is going to have to be THEE RIGHT person next time.
I'm not dealing with hassels just to have a man there. NO THANK YOU.
Lessons & tips: This is a personal goal. I think that it's awesome to have a companion to go through life with. For me, it's too the be all end all. I need to be completely FINE with it just being Carla to be a decent partner.
I'm getting there. ; -)
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tknight is t'done t'day
There has been some progress. Still waiting for the morter to set before grouting in the morning. But at least the tile work is done….
tknight is t'done t'day
There was a question regarding whether the sink actually fits or not.
I can honestly say it does.
Even the cats agree
tknight is t'done t'day
For anyone who has been following, I can cheerfully report that the sink now fits as it was intended.
The new item is the trial arrangement of tiles on a kitchen counter.
Now the textbook answer is tiles should be evenly arranged with whole tiles and a minimum of cut tile.
One counter came out perfectly…
The other (the one with the sink to be); not so much.
The Classic Old Cabinets with the Classic Old Counter and the (now gone to the scrap yard) not so stainless, Stainless Steel Sink are not even.
That is to say, the existing sink is plumbed (WAS plumbed) to be in he center of the window. The issue is that the Classic Old Counter was made before niceties such as dishwashers and French Door Refrigerators. As in circa 1970, a home handyman CUT the cabinet up, removing one half of the drawers and a cabinet to make room for a dishwasher and a larger than 1950 standard Kelvinator.
This resulted in a sink centered on the window, with the left side 32 inches and change from the sink edge and the right side 28 inches and change to the now sheer drop off and the 1970 created dishwasher opening in lieu of cabinet and drawers upgrade.
It is impossible to evenly place tile under these circumstances. So I do what I must, fit the tile as best I can, knowing that the tile will not be perfectly even on either side. So…. fitted tile at the back and at the edges is a necessity.
Welcome to the world of the test fit.
I am attaching a picture of a test layout that DID come out evenly….
More to follow….
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In this case it is the innocent task of “making our kitchen nicer.”
This involves three tasks…
We decided that it would be nice to have an upgrade to the old laminate counter kitchen with the heavily aged stainless steel sink. (they MAY be steel, but they certainly are NOT stainless!).
Then there is a window seat that has been teethed upon by a certain Border Collie…
So it begins…
So many, many decisions.
What kind of sink?
What kind of counter?
What to do with the chewed up window seat?
Granite?
A different kind of laminate?
Quartz?
Discovering that some of these options end up being in the same league as a medium sized battleship relative to the state treasury of HOME…
We look again.
Marble or Quartz tile?
Laminate… OUT!
Stone tile pretty.
Stone tile expensive but less so than solid surfaces….
Stone counter would be out of keeping with the rest of the local building standards (think crafts-many cottages).
Tile…
Ceramic or Porcelain?
Hummm…
Porcelain. Doable by me.
Ok.
Now a sink…
Colors and materials galore…
Something other than stainless which ain’t.
Cast iron?
Acrylic?
Granite?
Granite Composite?
Here we go again!
Cast iron is durable… but drop anything and it will go smash.
It will also chip.
And did I mention that it weighs like a battleship?
Acrylic?
Pretty colors.
Lightweight.
It cracks and scratches easily….
Uh…. NO!
Granite composite?
Weighs more than acrylic.
Solid through and through, if you chip, it is the same throughout.
costs less than many similar options.
Add one granite sink.
The window seat….
solid wood.
With teeth marks.
Resurface?
chomp. chomp.
Steel overlay? (Might crack dog teeth….).
Tile? TILE!
Oh boy.
There is a lot to prep.
Tear out the old surfaces…
Get supplies.
Get materials.
Did I mention I didn’t have a lot of tools for working with ceramic tile?
Eeeep!
Got the old surfaces stripped and prepped.
The sink didn’t arrive, so get a back-up sink and return the ordered sink when it gets here (originally supposed to be here last Thursday… now it will be a week from today LOL).
Get the old sink out.
It fights tooth and nail.
It wanted to stay.
I win.
The old sink is out.
Test fit the new sink to check opening is ok.
It doesn’t fit.
Not because of the opening…
But because it is an Old Cabinet and a classic (we like it.)
Just below the correctly sized opening the old cabinet displays that it has internal partitions that are eighteen inches across.
The new sink needs 22 inches.
Rebuild inside of cabinet.
Test fit again.
The sink doesn’t fit.
This time it is because the new sink has a 10 inch deep side sink and an 8 inch prep sink. The old plumbing used a six inch deep sink. And NOW I know why. There was literally two and a half feet of solid copper supply line feeding into the old cabinet.
The new sink needed two inches less pipe, or pipe that was 1/2 inch further toward the back.
Stop everything.
Become a plumber.
This involved removing two control valves, shortening the pipe, configuring a new supply line for the dishwasher while keeping the supply line for the ice maker.
Did I mention copper pipe.
Panic.
Research.
Thank G_d for compression valves and copper pipe cutters.
I have completed the plumbing.
Bought tile.
Bought backer board.
Bought tools.
Tomorrow…. I start to tile.
To be continued….
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This is a goal that requires care and nurturing every single day…
Or you may wake up
and
find…
that what you held most dear
may be at risk…
you have no one to blame but yourself.
All you can do…
is keep being…
yourself.
And evolve into the person that you would want to be wanted…
And witness the trips and tribulations of life…
while sharing all you can
each and every day.
and extend your hand…
and try…
to share with your other…
the day G_d made.
DRight Pt 2 is . . . . is enjoying His new home!!
. . . I’m looking forward to a lifetime of memories.
DRight Pt 2 is . . . . is enjoying His new home!!
. . . I marry my best friend.
looking forward to growing old with you Sweetie
DRight Pt 2 is . . . . is enjoying His new home!!
. . . the past two years of my life have totally incredible. Every day I smile. She has changed my like for the for the better. I never thought that I would ever be this happy. I’m looking forward to growing old with Her.
DRight Pt 2 is . . . . is enjoying His new home!!

I can’t help this BIG smile on my face.