One of my kids wants something pretty bad but a paramount stipulation of her even remotely having a chance at getting what she wants, is that this place has to be clean – pretty much from top to bottom.
Well, she self-motivated the other night. She has those moments just like I do, though hers always seem to be driven by getting what she wants rather than “just doing”, but nonetheless she even managed to recruit her big brother and the two of them jumped into one section of cabinets. He did no small amount of dish washing (pie plates, that sort of thing, dirty from just sitting in the cabinet for,... well, a very long time) and she cleaned out that section of cabinets with Pine-Sol & water. I haven’t checked her work though. See, I can’t readily get to those cabinets because of how much stuff they left in the kitchen floor when they ran out of steam that night. Everything from those cabinets will still be washed (like everything else) and while some will find its way back to where it belongs in a neater, originally intended, organized fashion and place… some of it is no doubt going to find its way into a box for a yard sale or a mixed-items donation box.
It was a start though and they also put a lot of effort into one section of very-cluttered counter-space and I followed up behind them washing some of the things from that area. A long ways to go though, but the little increments with several of us pitchng in, I think will work… will get it done… at least I hope so. The other methods employed, result in the other half being an ass and complaining – on the one hand he says make the kids do their chores, share in the tasks, “make them work” and then on the other hand and often in the same breath, he’s all over my ass about me telling the kids what to do. It’s a no-win situation for me most of the time. And just like with the entire domestic scene I get so low… so utterly discouraged because of the no-win situations, feeling like no matter what I do – even when I do things myself – it’s just going to bite me in the ass or that I can’t do anything right.
One section of cabinets washed… at least 10 more ‘sections’ to go….
