have better self-esteem

I am afraid of failure.I’ve always had so many high-standards for myself that I wanted to be the best I can to perfect.I freak about the littlest things.I feel like I have a pressure to be intelligent and beautiful..Its very hard I compare myself to everyone and I look at the negative things about me…

I compare myself to everyone, whether it’s other girls and there fashion or looks, people with there education, intelligence and how well paid there job is- but I think I’ll need tips and support to achieve this.

A wise doctor Suess once said “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”

It’s your life, not theirs. {color:red} Live it the way you want to.

im going to stop thinking and caring about what other people think of me.

I’m good enough, I’m smart enough and dog ‘gone it, people like me! ;-)

I always worry about what people are gonna think of me. I feel that Im not good enough, I feel that I have to try to be better than some one just to get a guy or a friend… Im sick of it I wish I could just speak up and say whats on my mind with out worrying about being judged. I wnat to be more coky.

Sometimes confidence can be a show. It can be such a shock to learn some people we know have quite humble opinions of themselves, maybe even secrely be self-effacing. I used to think I was the only one in the world insecure about myself, but I’ve discovered people around me that aren’t so sure of themselves either.

I wonder is self-esteem something one person alone can fix? Friends and family should be able to help from time to time, but self-esteem to me seems like it’s more psychological. It’s your own perception of you. Ultimately how you see yourself, whether you like yourself, is all up to you. It’s a scary thought.

why does life have to be so fucking hard? i just don’t understand it at all. the only comfort i have in life is my razor that i cut myself with because i’m so damn depressed. i want good friends to be here for me. i want a girlfriend that i can hug when i feel depressed… i want to feel happy again…

I’d say this goal will take some time… self-esteem isn’t just something that can be tweaked with a few therapy sessions or a self-help guide.