judge a little less and forgive a little more

i’m so judgmental..its bad. I’m sometimes wrong and sometimes right..but in the end..its not my place to judge people. and for me..forgiveness is hard..i hold on to too much.

I often confront people who just seem mean and unforgiving and critical to me. Then, I find myself immediately judging them – negatively – and not treating them as kindly as I could. I want to be gentler to them, forgiving, and less judgmental.

I’ve had this goal on here for a while, and i do believe i have gotten better at the forgiving part. I have always been one for second chances (sometimes to many chances) but it is still difficult to gain that trust i once had in people and for that reason, this goal is still on here.

...but very possible, and self-gratifying.

This is so contrary to my nature and I’m under too much stress . It’s about judgement ,I mean things are what they are , people too .Do scientist forgive matter for gravity, would gravity cease if they did ?
Anyway my mom wants to tell me about my other sisters new boyfriend . But I’m thinking you want to give me good news tell me she’s sewn herself up and decided to try being a person for one fucking day. Oh no I’m sure the latest boyfriend is the key to her happiness or the next one or the next .Instead of talking about what she’s done to her kids I’ll just admit that I’m a terrible uncle .So no I’m not the injured party who has anything to forgive . I just have the shame of not grabbing her and screaming.”Stop being a self destructive cunt , you have kids now !” 17 years ago and every year since .I don’t want to say it to her now but I can’t imagine that things have really changed so I would just as soon not see her at all .

Not only am I from a line of pissy people .I feel like forgiving is agreeing to forget a lesson learned . Unfortunately I tend to apply life’s lessons poorly . It says here 100% consider this worth doing . Need a plan to succeed at this one .

He wears sunglasses INSIDE not because he’s stuck up or chauchy, but because he suffered a serious accident a couple years ago, he became addicted to pain killers, got over the addiction, but found his sensitivity to light went up tenfold.

I felt horrible after that. I can be such a judging person. It’s so easy on first impression.

At least on the bright side, I made a new friend and learned something about him.

i have been working on this for a while.
i still have my share of judging, but who doesnt.
i have though began to forgive. i am told that i forgive too much though. i let everything go. EVERYTHING.
i just let things go. i rather have the people i love surrounding me than to have to hold a grudge or to not let things go. it is too much work to have to be mad or upset at someone. i wish people would feel the same way.

I have that habit. It is something that I need to work on. Judging people is wrong, because even after you get to know the person that you judged, that judgement of them is always in your mind. Classifications come from judgements as well. It angers me to see people steriotyping other people, and then I get angry at myself when I realize that I am doing the same thing. I’m trying really hard to brake that habit of judging people, because I want to see a person for who they really are, not for what I think that she should be.

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