have a family

As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (http://www.mormon.org/), I believe in the eternal significance of family and the essential role it plays in God’s plan. I am determined to follow His plan and start my own family one day. I know that a good family makes all the difference in the life of a person as well as the welfare of our society, and I plan to be a part of that.

yes indeed, i have the seed!
well the womb. . .lol.
i need the seed !

when this season comes,
i’ll be ready .

a family that doesnt fall apart..

Recently I seem to be connecting with people on a similar wavelength & thriving with my friendships!

I am so grateful :)

But I know that I was put on this earth to be a Mummy, so one day (when the time is right) I am looking forward to having little bubbies of my own….

I would like to eventually get married and have children. I know these days women are supposed to want to have a career and do it all themselves, but I would love to only work part-time (or even stay at home) and raise 3-5 kids. I would love to be able to have dinner ready for my husband, and have time to keep a nice house. Call me old-fashioned I guess.

I’ve started dating someone recently who looks realllllllly good, wife-potential-wise. She has a young daughter, and it would be very easy to fall into the daddy/hubby role…

In the last year or so I’ve been ready to get married and start a family. I had everything – a loving boyfriend, a couple of Yorkies, the home of my dreams, and a stable career. Recently my boyfriend of 6 years told me that he’s decided that it is not his goal to have a family. I was crushed because we always planned for children in our life together. We decided to split up in order to allow time for each of us to lead fulfilling lives. Now I am losing my best friend… and I fear I’ll never find anyone who will connect with me like he has. Neither of us can afford to stay in our beautiful home without a partner to share the cost, so we have decided to sell it. Luckily I still will have my career and full-time custody of my dogs!

Now I am in the planning stages to move on with my life. Slowly we’re beginning to get our house ready to put on the market. Then we will split up our belongings and find new places to live. I am looking for a home that will give me access to at least a small yard for my dogs. I also need to find a new partner who has the same goal of having a family. I’m 30, and I’m terrified.

Losing someone so great really makes me want to work hard to make myself happy… and for the long run. I want someone to share my life with. Once I’m settled in a happy, healthy relationship, I’d like to get married and start a family. I don’t want a big family necessarily – just the opportunity to raise one child will fulfill my dream.

I’m trying to stay positive, but this is really a difficult time for me… the most difficult time I’ve ever had.

some day I will get married with the man I love.
And I’ll have many problematic, noisy, wonderfull kids!

I think this is something I will do in about 10 years time, as I really want to do so many other things first and would love to adopt. We watched some videos of child birth at med school recently, thats put me off having my own kids!! I loved working with the orphans in Grenada, and there are so many kids desperate for homes, plus I think my genes are probably a bit dodgy. Its more about providing a child with a happy and loving home than about being pregnant. Have to get my life more settled first though. But one day :)