I have set to family-related goals here in 43things: marry the man I love and have a baby.
however, havin a family is a different goal for me. What I mean by this is:
first, get rid of all toxic relationships: biological family, so-called friends, colleagues etc… DONE!
second, set boundaries so that no-one steps on you anymore in the future – I am currently learning to do this.
third, carefully choose your own extended family: people who really care, a handful of true and trusted friends, etc. I have one brother and one aunt I can currently count on right now.
I don’t need hundreds of facebook “friends”! I want real & deep relationships, romantic or otherwise in my life right now, and from now on. 3 months ago