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I have always had a poor self image, and I’m barking on 40, so it’s time I change or try to change things in my eyes. Nobody can love me if I don’t love myself the way I am
How I did it: I've had to learn that the only one responsible for ensuring my happiness is me. No man (or woman, or child) can be exclusively responsible for my happiness and well-being. It's gotta come from me. People love you the way that you love you. Nothing more, nothing less.
Resources: Honeslty, the combination of 43Things, daily devotionals, and encouraging words from friends and family all combined to lead to my very own personal "aha" moment.
tabbycat70 trying to clean
I have always had a poor self image, and I’m barking on 40, so it’s time I change or try to change things in my eyes. Nobody can love me if I don’t love myself the way I am
This not only means to accept myself (which I’m done with ;-), but also to take care of my mind, my body, my spirit and to stop doing “destructive” things.
I am not going to allow anyone to make me feel less that what I am, therefore I will love myself more…. No.. I will love myself uncondtionally…
iheartluv is excited about life & all it's possibilities!
I was listening to Wayne Dyer’s tape set called “There’s A Spiritual Solution for Every Problem”. He makes many good points. I’ve heard people say he’s too religious for them, but even though I feel more spiritual than religious, I find it easy to take away many good points. I like the guy. I still find him a little, ohhh, egotistical or something, but we all have our issues and I’m sure when I accomplish this goal, I will be less harsh on other people.
aterax is a theatre goddess film destroyer
I am tired of blaming myself. I can believe I have some good in me. I want to love, but it will all be in vain, if I don’t love myself first.
BlkButterfly77 is a busy little bee (uh, I mean BUTTERFLY) once again! 8-)
‘Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of God.
Your playing small doesn’t serve the world.
There’s no thing enlightened about shrinking so
that other people won’t feel insecure around you.
We are all meant to shine, as children do.
We are born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone.
And as we let our own light shine,
we unconsciously give other
people permission to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear,
our presence automatically liberates others
so far i’m doing well. reached one of my goals and still going!! i’m motivated and inspired!! it feels good :D
Found out that loving someone else more than yourself means giving up your own life. I didn’t realize it until he stopped caring about me. Will I ever find myself again? I’m going to love myself enough to try!!