find true friends

About a year ago, i thought i’d found my “friendship group” but then the big world of University happened to us all, i moved away while the majority of my friends stayed at home. Now i’m back home studying here, and with one thing and another..i’ve lost the majority of them.

When i think now, i have a best friend, and a couple of other close friends. Which is fair enough, but not when they’re the kind of people who never return your message. I’ve got to the point where i’m fed up of making the effort, i’m starting to get the hint.

The guy who’s meant to be my best friend, i am starting to realise, is what you would call a “toxic friend”. He insults me by saying things like “he’s too clever for you” (i’m studying chemistry at uni, i’m not stupid), he can’t be happy for anybody and he’s one of those people who have to make other people look bad to make himself look funny.

I think i’ve reached a point where i don’t think these people are really my friends. I know i can’t “search” for true friends, but i’d like to stumble upon them sometime soon.

There are many people that I call friends because they
are not my worst enemy,but I really wish that
I had friends I could trust and tell everything.
Actually,I tell just about everything online.
As a result,people think I’m creepy and avoid me.

I want to find some good friends that i can talk to about everything .

well. i’m an aquarius so i have a hard time opening up to people anyways but my past makes it damn near impossible for me to trust anyone. i have a friend now who used to be my best friend and now we aren’t so close. i feel like she is jealous of me, my relationship with my boyfriend, just different shit. i have very very few friends as it is, not because i don’t want more but because i feel like the people i’m surrounded by are fake, two faced, etc. so i have no real ambition to go meet people who i feel don’t truly like me or will just use me and talk shit behind my back. it’s really hard for me to meet people too. i was expelled from school when i was 15 years old, which i KNOW doesn’t help. I don’t have a car, dunno how to drive, don’t have a job, don’t go to school; how the hell am i supposed to meet people? ugh i get so damn frustrated, i’m sooooooo tired of not having a friend i can call when i’m sad or something great happens. i feel like it’s me, its my fault, but i know deep down it’s not. ahhh i just want to find GENUINE mature people whom i really relate with, right now i feel as if i’m hanging out with people i don’t really care for and who don’t really care for me just so i won’t be so damn lonely. PATHETIC!

i want a friend that i would die for. i want a friend that listens to me when i’m in trouble. i want a friend that wont get jealous of anything i can do, or anyone i’ve met. i want them to be happy for me. i want a friend to joke around with. i want a friend who would tell me great advice when i need them. i want a friend that will be happy for what i was born with.

i want a true friend.

ok so my boyfriend is one of my bestfriends.. i have another bestfriend named alex. We recently got ina fight though. In movies the main character usually has at least one good friend.. Movies lie. I use to have a group of friends we all broke up and i stayed just ok friends with them, but one was my best friend kyla.. she was awful. she was mean to me, hated my boyfriend only because she was jealous (she told me).. and she spread awful rumors so now im stranded.. maybe i soon can find more friends that treat me good.. we’ll see how it goes

I have been having the same issue for what feels like my entire life.

Why is it so hard to find true friends. The one’s that are there for you. The one’s that come around because they want to see you, not because they want something.

I have this friend and he only comes around when he want’s something and it’s starting to get on my nerves.

If there’s anyone who lives in Santa Rosa, Ca. and want’s to hang out, let me know. :)

Have an amazing day!

hey guys, has anyone ever noticed that friends only seem to be there if they need something, and no matter how much you put into a friendship, you never really get any thing out! im always getting told by my family that im a walkover but surely it just that my so-called friends are users.

Last year, i had two best friends. i thought we’d be friends forever, and then one of them’s uncle died, and now her grandpa is dying, so her family is going through a huge pressure stage. And she has been convinced by some girl who she is now best friends with that i am negative and evil and a bad person, but i’m not. and i am so sick of this. I’ve tried so hard to get her to be friends with me again, but i’m done. she’s not worth it. Friends aren’t worth it if they ignore you. I’m falling apart, and all my old friends can think of is the guy they like, or how much they hate me. where in the world are true best friends? I seriously think they don’t exist.

Why is it that when your sad and depressed none of your friends are there for you or dont even really care. they are all too wrapped up in there own lives that usually have nothing going on but hanging out. when u need someone why is it that theres no one there?