There was a time where I believed that love had it’s own magic and love just happened without effort. Now I think love isn’t real because I was in a three year relationship that has ended badly. I was in love and very happy, but somehow love turned on me and I found myself wondering why I ever wanted to be loved. The one person I thought I could trust and be myself around became distant and unreasonable about everything. He just told me the other day that he has fallin out of love with me and he wants to be free. This hurts a lot and it’s hard to stop loving someone after you have loved them for so long. I just don’t know what happened I wish there was something I could do to let him see me again the woman he fell in love with. Is that possible????
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How I did it: it used to bother me that everyone around me found people... until i realized that they were okay with settling with whoever would love them... i was frustrated and mockingly decided to hold off on love until i found someone who fit everything on my list of "must haves." i was cynical and truly made one, trying to defy any person remotely interested in me to live up to it all. i still can't believe i found someone who actually did. honest… Read how I did it…
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This happened to me. Love is not a beautiful emotion. If unrequited, it is the most fucking painful thing since being stabbed through the kidneys. Trust me on this one. If you do not believe me, do not worry. Your time will come.
It will happen. I’m sure of it….but it doesn’t look like it will be any time soon…:)
Before we can actually fall in love and stay in love we have to learn to truly love ourselves. Love is simple. It shouldnt hurt or require you to change who you are…. If the love your experiencing or seeking is difficult. You may want to evaluate the ONE who you choose to share your love with….. They may not be worthy of your level of emotion, commitment selflessness…...
it’s not gonna happen… i’ve forgotten how to fall in love…
i’ve forgotten how to flirt, how to tell when someone’s interested, how to tell when someone’s flirting with me… it’s all really sad, really.
and i need to stop totally falling for my good guy friends… cause now i just kinda hurt.
it’s been awhile since i’ve checked this thing. since then i have accomplished a copuple things on my list. i managed to fall in love, real love, nothings fake, with the greatest guy in the world. this will last.
i been in love b4 but i had my heart broken soo badly that i dont kno if i can love again or at least not as much as i loved my previos boyfriend
I initally was very skeptical and guarded.. but have come to realize that it can happen! And it didn’t require plastic surgery, or a fancy car, or major sacrifices… Just the courage to love myself, and be open to love from others. Once I made positive changes in my own life, I met a wonderful man. We were both immediately smitten. If I had written down a description of the “perfect” soulmate, I would have been afraid to ask for someone as fantastic as he is (not that he’s perfect, just that he’s perfect for me).








