tell him how i really feel

It’s a long story, I met him this year, my first year of college. We hooked up within a week of meeting each other, and continued to do so for about three months. It was always really casual. Well, in the end we both got real frustrated with each other. So, we made an agreement that from now on we’ll be noting more than just friends. I like this guy so much, and would do anything for his heart, even though he is an asshole at times, and I know dating him would be really frustrating and unbearable alot of times. No guy has had such an effect on me as him. So, I start seeing this other guy thinking it will help me get over him, but this guy is really boring, he’s not even that cute, it feels weird, forced, and it has turned mostly physical, I guess because the physical stuff comes easier for me, and its hard for me to just talk to guys, and I want him more than before now. So, I’m talking to my friend and she asks why I can’t just tell him how I feel. I say because it’s just so embarressing for him to know the depth of my feelings for him, when all he was supposed to be was just a hook up. She thinks it’s kind of messed up that I cant even tell him how I really feel, but I can easily share the most intimate act with him, and be naked in front of him, and I guess it kind of is. Lots of other friends have given me simmilar advide too. So, what do all of you think?

so…i told him. it was a few weeks ago. sadly it was because we were fighting. i never intended for it to come out the way that it did, but i feel (felt) so much better for getting it out in the proverbial open.

we’ve been together just a little while – this goal was actually originally about someone else entirely. but now i’m happy. i love, i am loved.

i’ve been avoiding the conversation for the past month or so. and he’s asked. we’ve been seeing each other since December and not once have we (rather, have i) attempted to specify what we’re doing.

over the weekend i found myself in a position where i couldn’t get away from answering. and i’ve had a few days to think about it and put my words together. and i don’t know any better now than i did back in December…

He is such a beautiful person and he is so important to me. I want to tell him this in case he doesnt know, but I dont want to push him away. I hope he knows.

I was so afraid to but once the fact that I liked him was out in the open and we had talked about it for a while, we were back to our normal selves. I was afraid this would ruin our relationship since he is one of my best friends but in the end, I am so satisfied with my decision to tell him cause I don’t feel like I need to pretend I’m not jealous when he talks about other girls and he can know how I feel in case he decides to persue something with me.

It didn’t make a big difference after all, but I’m glad I’ve done it. I just wanted him to know before he made a decision. So now I can’t blame myself that it didn’t work out.

that since i have told him how i feel i have been able to get over him. it helped a lot.

Yes
I am the typical case of girl falling for one of her guy friends.
I have a BIG HUGE problem with telling a guy how I really feel about them.
I don’t see the risk..then again I’ll never know until I Try
I’m like the chick friend that guys talk to about how they feel about other peoople…always..and I’m never the girl (or they never told me)
Current situation: I like the guy..falling for him crazy…and part of me just wants to find out if it’s any possiblity of us being together so that if it isnt…i can just drop it all together and get over him!
while i’m sitting back wishing..he’s telling me about some girl he wants a relationship with and makesout with and missed so much…
umm..can he miss me as much?
then their so much more to the story…
pulls hair out
help plz….

like they dont care about anyone but themselves! i am perfectly happy now that i got over him… he was a apig and would have cheated on me just like he is doing with his current girlfriend… oh well. all that matters is that i am finally happy!

this is awesome! like its not that he broke up with his current girlfriend or anything which would be even more amazing, but i am so happy!

now that he knows our relationship has improved tremendously! ahhh it is so awesome…! like we talk and joke with each other. this is making me fall even more in love with him.

the best part is that… everyone thinks that him and his girlfriend will be breaking up soon because he always looks unhappy when he is around her.

whenever we are at lunch, i sit at one end of the cafeteria with my friends and he sits at the other with his girlfriend(and looks bored out of his mind). i always look at the clock that is above his lunch table and then i just happen to look down and catch a glimpse of him just staring at me(or my friends, but i am gonna guess that it is me).

i love him! : )!!