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6 months ago
i always hear until you forgive those who hurt you, you can never be truley happy
so am gonna work at this everyday
How to forgive people
It made me
ok now what 
"Thanks for all the fish"
How I did it: I finally forgave a number of people in my life that I realized I held deep resentments towards. The first step is of course realizing why you feel how you do about them, then forgiving them. Lastly talk to them and verbally forgive them, regardless of the outcome
Lessons & tips: Don't expect anything. I've found at the end of the day some people would rather place blame, than except fault. Sadly thats what they see excepting forgiveness to be.
Do it for yourself, not their response.
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Some People Change By: Montgomery Gentry
12 months ago
I love this song because it goes right along with my desire to forgive people. It’s hard to forgive people that keep doing the same thing wrong again and again. I’m not saying it’s impossible but how can someone truly be sorry and yet hurt you yet again.
I really do hope that people will change.
BrishenAlston fighting the chaos ensued insanity with deep breathing
Forgiving the Unforgivable By: Beverly Flanigan
16 months ago
I’m reading this book. While I’m not sure self-help books work I just said why not and grabbed it off the library shelf. It hits upon several things that really make sense like knowing; who you blame, who all was involved in the making of the unforgivable event, what actually happened to you rather than another person also hurt(you must focus on your injury & only your injury to heal), & what moral codes were broken by the person who hurt you…
And much more…
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3 years ago
I think my problem is anxiety and worry and replaying the day’s events or what people said over and over again in my head.
And I have trouble letting things go, even things that weren’t meant the way I took them. Then I have trouble not holding a grudge.
It’s all good.
I know I can get better at this.
