do something selfish just for myself everyday, because I am not happy and I need to do something about it

so i must have done something right

because i have learnt to speak up for myself

and i have become confident in my daily job

(my previous employed demolished me)

i am happier on all fronts

I went to the coffee/book shop, bought 5 books, had a large mocha and a piece of cake, and sat around on a comfy leather couch for about 2 hours, then I drove to my sisters and had a chat, a mooch around the local pottery/craft place, bought a wood and ceramic candle holder and candle, and then drove home

I have had a good day, and my other half seemed to have missed me whilst I was gone

absence making the heart grow fonder and all that