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Refuse to do the moan thang!


 

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Im putting this as done 2 years ago

I haven’t had a major moan or whinge for some time now. I try to catch myself when I fall into negative thought patterns and resist like hell, I refuse to get all introspective about whatever it all is. I ride it on through and know it will pass.

I’m not saying that I won’t have the odd rant or rave, thats always good. Who doesn’t have to let off a little steam once in a while.

What I meant when I originally wrote up this goal was that I was kinda sick and tired of the fact that I was stuck on a few things and a little overfocused upon them.

I’m pretty sure that I’ve now broke that destructive cycle. That can’t be a bad thing.

This doesn’t preclude me from having one or 2 major moans in the future, but it will certainly no longer be a thematic or persistant feature..;-)



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I'm doing ok on this 2 years ago

Ive had my off days, but I’m learning to ride them on out, I know that they will pass, a better day is around the corner.

I don’t think Ive moaned or whined about something for quite some time now. At least in the sense of a huge mega moan I mean..um am I backtracking here..

Anyways, its my perception of reality that counts! :D



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I think Im doing pretty good on this 2 years ago

I’m posting fairly positive things, negativity is being kept at bay.

It helps to be interacting with a variety of postive people here, who shall remain nameless.

Big up cheers to all Im subscribed to, you all help keep me on the oh so narrow path.

Thanks :)



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Sometimes I feel like I moan too much, so 2 years ago

Some might say that we can’t realistically expect to have a continual daily life of blissful contentment. We’d waste away like those folks in HG Well’s time machine. They stagnated cos they didn’t either think or feel or learn or grow anymore. We need a certain amount of crap to give us balance and perspective and help drive us towards more nourishing, enlivening perspectives. How can we possibly appreciate true contentment without knowing its flipside? Is it not that very flipside that pushes us to pursue all that is fullfilling and meaningful – Perhaps so.

That said, we can also get too bogged down by that stuff and overfocus on stuff we can’t change or alter, so with that in mind, for a while at least, Im gonna make a determined effort to only post perspectives that have a positive focus. If it doesn’t help, assist, nurture or enhance, then it might not be worth saying even!

Ok, off to pick up my son and watch some Family guy :D




 

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