have an ongoing BDSM relationship with a local sub

Tied my new gf up once; when it happens a few more times, it’ll graduate to “ongoing”. :c)

I live in a small city with nothing like a fetish club in sight, so it seems tough. After my last girlfriend, though, I’m through with unsatisfying relationships. So this has become a disturbingly high priority for me. Oh well, that also means the wave of motivation is cresting…

I’m going to just do whatever I can think of to make contact with someone. Nobody is going to just waltz into my life with lifestyle offers. It’s not the only part of my life that I need to implement new strategies, so this will help with my other goals.

Maybe I’ll check out fetish clubs in larger cities when I make the odd trip…