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How to be nicer to my boyfriend by julielondon

"very rewarding"

How I did it: I just decided to let things go. Yes he will always get his own way but if it keeps him happy then I am happy as well. Some arguments just aren't worth it. He is being equally as nice back to me so it benefited us both. I also had to realise that I don't see him much so when I am with him to make the most of it.

Lessons & tips: Just to enjoy the time you have with one another.

Resources: Big smile, Cheeky grin.


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Oct 29, 2008, 02:02PM PDT | 0 comments | 1 cheer



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How I did it: I haven't "accomplished" this per se. Every time I start to be bitchy about something I ask myself "is it worth it?" and the answer is usually "No way!" I try to remind myself that it's more important to be happy than to get that last word in. I'm always looking for ways to be more thoughtful and kind, but the biggest challenge for me is not to let myself get drawn into an argument. My boyfriend and I are both incredibly stubborn, and can… Read how I did it…

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    lornaex

    why am i so nasty to him? 4 weeks ago

    I try so hard to be positive about our relationship and future but he keeps saying we are going to move in together but it doesn’t seem to be happening. I love him so much and have been with him 4 years, i just hate my self being nasty to him because he is so nice to be and would never say anything mean or nasty to upset me so why do i do it to him??

    Oct 13, 01:08PM PDT | 0 comments


    martuxa

    sharp they say 1 month ago

    So apparently I am sharp. with him. I dont see than, but sometimes people around you see better how you act than you can realize it yourself.
    fine. ill try not to snap.
    but he is just sooooo asking for it :)
    he is such an easy target to….
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    Sep 30, 08:56AM PDT | 0 comments


    finding_my_light getting the hang of this

    Untitled 9 months ago

    I have realized that letting go of the resentments help enormously!! I love him <3

    Feb 04, 07:54AM PST | 0 comments


    Mravica_V is going to sleep

    its happening again 10 months ago

    I’m a bit too jumpy.

    Getting angry too quickly.

    Raising my voice too much.

    And that bothers him. I should pay more atention on that

    Jan 13, 2009, 05:00PM PST | 0 comments


    Mravica_V is going to sleep

    and i was 10 months ago

    I made him a sweet powerpoint presentation and he loved it… He was happy, I was happy… And I’m working on it. Thats what matters :)

    Jan 04, 2009, 06:18PM PST | 0 comments


    Mravica_V is going to sleep

    he has his flows... 10 months ago

    But he cares. And he tries.

    So he deserves it from me to try a little too.

    I’m sure he will return it…

    Jan 02, 2009, 03:46PM PST | 0 comments


    finding_my_light getting the hang of this

    Untitled 11 months ago

    He called me at work 4 times today and I didnt get frusterated and I let him finish saying what he wanted each time. I took me alot to do this!!

    Dec 04, 2008, 12:38PM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments


    julielondon is finding it strange how her list is working all by itself.

    He's so adorable 13 months ago

    I don’t consciously do it but I push him to see how far I can go till he snaps. He is surprisingly tolerant. I love him so much and think he’ll leave anyway so I cause problems between us when actually he’s the best thing thats happenned to me for a long long time. I need to except happiness when it comes my way and stop trying to pre-empt disaster.

    Oct 15, 2008, 01:36PM PDT | 0 comments


    SKELETONQUEEN asljglkdjgskgjl

    9/30/08 13 months ago

    we had a good night. very calm.

    Sep 30, 2008, 05:37AM PDT | 1 cheer | 1 comment


    SKELETONQUEEN asljglkdjgskgjl

    9/29/08 13 months ago

    things are so terrible right now.
    worst night ever. we fought all night. till 2 am.
    im not happy in this relationship.
    i dont know why he wants to be with me. im such a bitch to him.
    hes not the reason im not happy. its all the things I am doing wrong. i cant be happy with him, if im not happy at all.
    he thinks its like…his responsibility to make me happy. its not. im supposed to BE happy. i dont know how to make this happen but until it does im just going to become more and more distant. i dont want that to happen. i love him, and im so sad.

    Sep 29, 2008, 07:16AM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments


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