get my boyfriend back

I was with my boyfriend for 3 years things were going great at least i thought. The last day i saw him we made love he said to me I love you with all my heart baby we’re going to get married and get house the first of the year. that night i woke up at about 3am, I text him baby lets go to reno and get married this weekend. I got a text back saying we need to talk I dont want to get married I need some space we need to revaluate the relationship. So I gave him 1 week he called me at work and said he still needs to think about it and it’s better now than later. I asked him are you breaking up with me? He never said anything 2 weeks later i tell him that we should meet up and chat about it. He says i dont want to see you and i dont have to tell you anything to your face. Im not feeling it. That was 5 weeks ago my heart hurts really bad. I dont know what happened because he wont talk to me. I love this man but he left me woth all these questions, Yes Im doing my best to move on. It’s just really hard, I want the pain to go away. I love him.

When we first broke up, I did some stupid things I shouldn’t have. I guess I was a wreck and wasn’t thinking straight. I finally listened to my best friend who had been trying to tell me I shouldn’t be making decisions about what to do when I was upset. She wanted me to back off for a while.

She’s always messing around on the internet and found one of those on line books about how to get someone back. I got it and read it a couple of times. It’s got some fantastic stuff in it and it’s working out for me because all I have to do is what the book says instead of trying to figure it out on my own.

It’s been 5 weeks and we aren’t completely back together but so far it’s working out. All good things take time I guess. If anyone wants to check the book out, here is the link:
ezurl.eu/Magic of Making up

Now if I want to get teary eyed or anything like that, I do it when my ex isn’t around. When I’m around him, I’m Miss calm and cool. It’s nice to have a plan of action and I actually feel better and more in control.

Wish me luck and I wish everyone here the best of luck.

Ya know I have learned that when you focus on the breakup you forget all the fun you had.
There are reasons people are in your past….Usually because they did not deserve to be part of your future!

Old Mar 2, 2008, 02:30 AM
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Question how to get my first love back
Hi this is my first time here, I’m not sure if this question has been asked but I really need help here!

I’m a 20-year-old girl who recently ended a dating relationship with a 22-year-old guy. He asked me to be his girlfriend in December but I said I was not ready and he continued treating me like his girlfriend.

One month ago, he started talking about this new girl around school, whom he has known since last August. I became jealous and cried in front of him but I didn’t tell him I was jealous. What was worst was that I had given him the cold shoulder a week before I found out about the new girl.

The day I cried he told me maybe we should be friends first and that I always giving him the cold shoulder for no reason, without telling him. He said he needed time to think whether we really needed each other, and that he still treated me more than a friend.

I thought it meant he didn’t like me anymore and I was very emotional and I kept thinking about the new girl, even though he tried to reassure me that nothing happened.

In the 2nd week, my friends were hounding him about me and the other girl and he finally said he did not like me as much as before.

In the 3rd week, he did not contact me until my friend’s party one weekend to ask me where it was. During the party, he tried to talk to me but I avoided him. After the party ended, I went home, felt so bad that I sent him an emotional message. He was shocked and said he thought everything was okay.

In the 4th week, it was Valentine’s Day week and I decided to meet him on the 15th to give him a letter explaining my actions. Now I realised that a letter was the wrong move. He was being really nice to me and it felt like before but I gave him really non-interested replies. After he read the letter, he said he really felt like talking to me but he was busy. I saw him studying with the girl and another friend and I felt so bad but I didn’t not ask him about it.

In the 5th week, I tried to message him and ask him how was his work and weekend but I could feel his response was back to the 2nd week, where he said he did not like me as much.

In the 6th week, I asked him when he wanted to talk to me and every time we set a time/place, he would say he forgot or he fell asleep. Finally, I had one hour to him in the car and I asked him about the letter. He said he found it hard to communicate with me because he did not want to say the wrong things and see me cry. I called him up a day later to ask him what was our status and he said “just friends” and I forced him to make a decision on meeting me to talk about the letter.

My friend told me it was the wrong move and I cancelled the meeting. At night, he asked me whether I could talk on the phone but I did not reply his message. At 5am, he asked if I didn’t want to talk to him anymore. I was awake and I said sorry, I fell asleep and that I felt we were actually not ready to talk about anything, since he felt like he couldn’t communicate with me. He said he was afraid of saying the wrong things and he did not want to see me cry. I said that we would talk when we felt ready and his reply was “okay sure..but you can look for me anytime you are bored or need someone to talk to! I will try my best to listen to you..”

I know I have pushed him to the maximum. I also discovered that he took out my picture from his wallet.

I’ve been reading a lot on how to get your boyfriend back..but he was never my boyfriend. However, I really feel he is special to me and I want to try over again.

It has been 5 weeks since he said he did not like me anymore.

dang my b-friend broke up with me
and it sucks but he is trying to get
me to go back out weith him but i wont
he shouldnt have dumped me in the first place

God i pray each night
about my love that is now gone
and how i need him back
in my life

i don’t know if my prayers
will ever come true
so i thought this letter
was the best thing to do
So you could make my dreams
come true

God i cant seem to understand
what should i do?
When the love of my life
is in love with someone new

I cant seem to go on
I’m sitting here waiting for him
and i feel like a fool
he has left me
and i don’t know what to do

What do i do?
when a love so true is gone
out my life?
how can i sleep
knowing he wont
come back in my life

God you have forgiven me for all
my lies and sins
all i had to do
was confess them
and that was the end

He could not forgive me oh lord
i just don’t understand why
after all we had
he doesn’t want
to give us another try

Lord i just don’t
know what to do
all i seem to do is cry
please answer me lord
because its driving me insane
to sit here and not
understand why?
WHY DID A LOVE SO TRUE DIE?

i miss my ex… but this other guy who wants to be with me but i still love my ex… i told the guy i just need time buz i still love my ex was i wrong?? i just need time… i am new in college n in a new state n just got heartboken its crazy!!! oh boi.. i mean this guy is hella cute but i jut cant jump in ya feel? i still would love to be with my ex… so confused lol

i miss him alot… but it seems he want me out his life so i got to get back out plus now i am college so iam gonna meet alot of guys… so guess its time for me agian… gonna miss him tho… but i did enuf cryin so it is now to begin a new life!!!

he havent call me yet… but we only been broken up 2days but he have email me that i am a great alented woman but it just not the time… what should i do??

my ex broke up with me febuary 20,2008 because he say he is to old for me n he use to older woman n how he love me but it was to early for us to be together bcuz iam 20 n he is 30… but we been together 2years n now all the sudden iam to young… i believe he met someone else i dont know ….. but i am gonna be okay… iam young n beautifl so forget him