Share 43 things I love about my boy

to give up this goal, because there are so many things I love about him, but unfortunately we have decided to go our seperate ways, we are simply too different, and it is time to begin to grow apart from eachother.

fold books. I think he’s secretly enjoying it.

..but I only shared them with him, as a Valentine’s Day… thing. I loved writing the list. It made me all misty-eyed and sappy, and helped consolidate and validate what I already knew – he’s bloody ace.

_{Actually, there were only 42, because in an early-morning bleary state just before I sent the email, I realised two were so similar they may as well be amalgamated into one… then forgot to write a 43rd on the list. So, number 43 – he’s sharp-eyed and pedantic.}

Edit: Yes, pedantic, not pendatic. Oops.

31. He rocks at his job
32. I admire him for being brave and making a big career change which has really paid off for him
33. He’s really great at just talking to people and communicating. Sometimes I need a big of prompting :)
34. He is so supportive of me starting my business and always has lots of good ideas
35. Since we’ve been together he’s picked up a lot of homeopathic lingo and likes to drop the names of remedies as often as he can. It’s ultra cute and melts my little hippie heart
36. He tells me that he thinks I’m cute every single day
37. He loves it when I wear my colourful headscarves
38. He does all the electronic stuff in the house because he knows it stresses me out
39. He makes the best spaghetti bolognaise. He takes it so seriously….it cracks me up. But it does taste delicious
40. He’s smart. He’s knows lots of stuff and never fails to point that out
41. He has cute little songs that he sings when I do things….it’s hard to describe but i love it
42. He irons far more often than I do, and if I ever need a skirt ironed he does it for me
43. He has nice lips
44. He likes to talk about our future and all the things that we’re going to do together. Okay so I added an extra one!

I’m so grateful that Damian came into my life and it’s hard to believe that after nearly 3 years together I love him more now than ever before. I’m a lucky, lucky girl.

we discussed living apart because he wants to buy a house and I’m still a student and other things like council tax reasons, but then he said, he wouldn’t want to not live with me, so we put that idea in the bin.

21. He loves my butt…even when I’m whining that it’s too big
22. He lets me have ‘the power’ of the remote
23. He made me amazing business cards
24. He makes me feel safe
25. When I’m too tired to get something that I want he gets it for me
26. When I buy new clothes he lets me do fashion parades for him and acts interested
27. He makes me laugh at my neurosis
28. I trust him more than I thought I’d ever trust anybody
29. He’s introduced me to lots of new foods – like couscous and brie cheese
30. He brings home ‘nerdy’ shirts from work because I knows I like to use them as PJ’s :)

11. His freckles are oh so cute
12. He loves my body and isn’t shy about letting me know ;)
13. He is affectionate in public
14. Him and my brother get along so well which makes me happy because they are 2 very important people in my life
15. He thinks it’s important that we have a ‘date night’ once a week. It’s always really fun and we always look forward to it
16. When I’m cranky and don’t want to talk he always makes me (which might piss me off at the time) and i feel a million times better afterwards
17. He completely accepts me and has never gotten scared
18. He has a cute butt
19. He is such a good person and always there for other people
20. He watches Sex and the City with me

just so we could have an extra half hour cuddle.

8. The first thing he usually says to me in the morning is ‘I love you’
9. He always spoons me because it’s the only way I can get to sleep. Even if I wake him up in the middle of the night :)
10. He calls me everyday from work just to say hi

Tonight I was crying, and within no time has had me laughing so hard it hurts. I don’t know how he does it, but I sure do love him for it.